However she is is a very destrying relashingship. The other one (that's what I saw) wants to destroy everything she has. She wanrts a share of whatever my WF has treated everyone else like siht (invert the hi), etc.
My WF is lonely, no matter what she would back to her, specially when she drinks. The other one sleeps around: "sex and love is a huge difference".
My WF is confused. Is she lonely? Is she stupid? No reasonable thought id going for her to listened.
Two questions:
Have you been in a similar situation? If so what was the outcome?
How should a gay man deal with this.
Please only honest answers I cannot deal with bigotry at the moment!
2006-10-08 13:19:49 · 5 answers · asked by Díscolo 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As you've pointed out, her staying in a bad relationship is very harmful. I think it's time to get to the bottom of what's going on. Find out why she's staying in that relationship. Help her to get out before it does more damage to her, or her liver.
2006-10-08 15:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have seen similar situations and I think that Your friend has a serious problem. If she wants to be treated like this I guess there is nothing you can do. What you are in con troll of is your friendship with her.. You need to tell her how her abusive relationship is effecting yours. You cant keep going around and around with her. And once she gets drunk she just goes back.. She might even be and alcoholic maybe if she sobered up she would take a crystal clear look at what is happening to her life. Anyway set boundaries for your friendship If she is wonderful and strong maybe you need to tell her how it is.... Stop trying to fix her.. just tell her that she wants to be treated the way she is being treated or she would end the relationship..... make her understand she is in control over how she is treated be the other woman...
2006-10-09 12:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've no idea what yoau are TA. Your WF is a SB. YS let it go. After all YOLO.
2006-10-08 13:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ..no one lets you down, its your own expectations of that person. practice live and let live and move on with your life.
2006-10-08 13:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trade in her for caring one
2006-10-08 13:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋