I'd like to marry somebody who is open to this because it is my ultimate relaxation. I'd like to get this out in the open before getting married to someone ot make sure we can enjoy this together.
2006-10-08 13:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by Dennis K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her
If she doesn't like the idea then you have to respect it. She has every right to not partake in such activities just as you have every right to seek a mate that enjoys them.
Don't try to change her... would you like her to try and change your mind?
2006-10-08 13:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I met the lady who is now my wife, I had the same problem!
All I did was to explain to her what the lifestyle was about and we started going to a clothes optional beach, with the agreement that she could wear what she felt comfortable in and we'd leave if she wanted to. For a long time she only went topless, but then one day she went nude and has done ever since.
The important thing is to let her decide what she's comfortable with and not to pressure her in to doing something she doesn't want to do.
2006-10-09 07:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her gently, assure her it is NOT a sex thing but that you just feel more comfortable letting it all hang out, literally, and would like her to join you-on a trial basis- to see how comfortable she can be with it. you never know, she might dig it.
2006-10-08 20:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh...has all that sun exposure melted your brain? Just TELL her, doofus! If she is horrified then it was not in the cards ... if she smiles, then strip and enjoy!
2006-10-08 20:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be talking to her not us....
send her a copy of your post on here.
2006-10-08 20:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her. all she can say is no.
2006-10-08 20:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋