OK..my 17 year old daughter Izzy has a boyfriend called Drew.they had just recently had a fight and arn't talknig to eachother.Drew needed a job as a gardener so I have him the job at our mansion.One time he was cleaning the pool and I usually skinny dip in the pool early in the morning and he ended up hiding in the shed because his phone went off and I thort there was no one cleaning it.Yea anyway he saw me naked and a week later he confessed he had feelings for me.So yea we got caught in the "moment" and we slept together.How am I going to tell my daughter? she is be devistated and I am afraid she will run away from home (as she has before) and I can't keep such an awful secret forever what should I do?
2006-10-08 12:55:08 · 20 answers · asked by lip_smaka_hotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you should tell her the truth even if she hates you for it and if she does you can not blame her but it will be better then her hearing it from someone else and being caught in the moment does not excuse what you did and you should fill bad because what you did was very wrong she is your daughter and you just don't ever sleep with your daughters b/f Rather they were fighting or not its still wrong good luck
2006-10-08 15:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old is Drew ?? If he is 17 or underage, you have just become a Pedophile. What is wrong with you that you could not control your skinny dipping and had to preform that when Drew was being your gardner ??? You planned it that way . You had better keep it a secret and not let it happen again. Don't tell your daughter. Tell Drew that he can not work for you. Break it up now. Good grief, what is wrong with you. Are you so tempted, that you got to spread your old legs for a kid ? Just goes to show that you, too fall into this catagory. You've got more activity in your privates then you do in your brain. If your daughter has run away before, is it also because you screwed her boyfriend ? Poor Kid.
2006-10-08 13:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're kidding... but if you are not I can imagine your life is full of problems and you need to change the way you are living and not just ask what to do in this situation. Some ideas: find a religion, quit drinking, and try being honest with yourself and everyone around you....also don't go skinny dipping and don't hire you daughter's ex...remember you should ALWAYS be on your daughter's side.
2006-10-08 13:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Emily H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How stupid can you be?
First of all, if you really live in a mansion, you should have a better education than your writing shows.
Secondly, do you really need to ask the question "Did I do something bad"? If your story is true, of course you did something bad and you are a tramp.
I think you are just trying to write a porn story but just in case it's true, keep your big mouth shut and don't let her know that her mother is a tramp or do you want to make her think that you are hotter than she is.
Don't forget, if this story is true, you have a lot more to lose than she does.
2006-10-08 13:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by nellie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask was it bad then you already know. Hopefully the bond with your daughter is strong enough to withstand such a horrible blow. Be honest with her and prepare for the worst. Prayer changes things.
2006-10-08 12:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by laedeb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really did something bad,why did you do that how could you. sit her down an explain to her what happen.it may take a while for her togive you.try to explain to her an lets hope she don't run away from home.tell her it was a mistake an you didn't mean for it to happen an it was just onetime it will never happen again.
2006-10-08 13:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by jamie g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go on Jerry Springer with this one, or send this to the writers of Desperate Housewives!!! Good luck to ya!!
2006-10-08 13:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by SittinPretty! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is disgusting and you should be very ashamed of yourself. You need to be honest with your daughter so she can draw her own conclusions about you...and run far far away.
2006-10-08 12:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by jessarose143 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, what a mother !! no wonder she is prone to running away. Best to come clean with her than to have her find it out other wise. at least you will have a better chance to TRY to explain things.
2006-10-08 13:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I wanted to read a soap opera, I would do that. You're not even that good a writer. Ask serious questions.
2006-10-08 12:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋