...and also tells her that she's his best friend?
2006-10-08 12:11:13 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Come on! You know what it means! It means that he is trying to have an affair and cheat on his wife! Give him the name of a good marriage counselor, and tell him he needs to try harder to be more sensitive to his wife's needs. Remind him of the vows he made not only to his wife, but before God! Marriage is sacred and what God has brought together let no one come between! Tell him to go home and work out his problems. If you have any ideas that there could be a relationship here, just remember, a man who would cheat on his wife will cheat on his girlfriend! Tell him there is a price to pay for immorality. Tell him his best friend should be his WIFE!
Many men try to get sympathy by inappropriately confiding in another woman. He is trying to get sympathy because he wants sex! He knows how to work women. I feel sorry for his poor wife! Just think how much distrust he is fostering by not talking to HER about their problems! Don't fall for it! He has no respect for his wife. He also has no respect for you! Ask him what kind of woman does he take you for? Take your head out of the sand and tell him to go home!
2006-10-08 12:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is an disloyal pig who should be discussing his marital problems with his wife, she is the person involved. How would you like it if you were married and your husband was talking to another woman about you. You can't fix his problem, only he can so he should start at the root of the problem.
If he's not looking for something that he shouldn't be looking for then he should be respecting the sanctity of his marriage.
Perhaps his wife is having a problem not him and he's looking for pity.
2006-10-08 12:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by nellie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe nothing but don't fall into his problems or add to them by sleeping with him or spending too much time with him! he may be looking for an out, I mean a reason to leave his wife instead of telling her the truth. Be supportive if you two are friends but keep it at that!! No one's ever gotten and award for being the "Best HomeWrecker!" LOL :) Just be careful of his intentions!!!
2006-10-08 12:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to have sex with you and he is trying to play to your sympathies by relaying his marriage woes to you, which is very disrespectful to his wife and marriage.
He is playing you in hopes you will feel sorry for him and give it up. The next step is for him to start crying on your shoulders if he hasn't done that already.
You must tell him something to the effect of, stop telling you and get professional help as his marital issues with his wife is none of your business.
This guy is a jerk and you should not consider him even and acquaintance. You should really feel disrespected and used, because that is what he is doing to you.
2006-10-08 13:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Martin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to get in her panties and telling you about his sad marriage will make you feel sorry for him. If there are so many problem he should leave.
He's not going to leave his wife and in the end the woman on the side will get dumped and hurt.
Married men are always off limits.
2006-10-08 12:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is an old line from way back there. You can always tell when a married man is baiting you, he puts those old, old, fishing lines out to get you!!! Run, don't walk to the next personals ad or meet some new person who ain't "takin" you for a ride!!"
2006-10-08 12:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All married men that cheat say pretty much the same thing. They always have a reason for seeing other women, like he's having problems at home.
He might be the problem.
2006-10-08 12:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means he is having problems in his marriage and that he is looking to her for comfort. granted that comfort zone may be between two sheets, and in various positions is up to you. the best friend line may well be the truth especially if you both are sharing details and offering advice on your personal lives
2006-10-08 12:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problems they are most likely having are from HIM becuz he is going and talking to women such as you instead of his wife. Guys like this do the SAME thing to the SAme women...he is trying to sway you...he is STILL married and you should help the relationship instead of make it worse
2006-10-08 12:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never get involved with a married man if he has problems with her those problems may become yours and besides it morally wrong for you to see a married man let him take care of his own life before starting a new one
2006-10-08 12:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋