Okay, I'm in seventh grade and there's this new guy named Bobby that just came this year. Since the beginning of school he hasn't made a single friend because he's really shy. I feel really bad for him and I would like to talk to him. I always been mistaken for a flirt in school although I really don't intentionally flirt with anybody. So how can I help Bobby and not seem like I like him??
2006-10-08 12:05:28 · 11 answers · asked by fruit salad 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so you are nice, and everyone assumes that you're flirting.. awesome.. sucks, huh sweetie? sorry i have that problem too.. never goes away..
if you want to help him.. hmmm... lets see get together with some friends and see if they would just go and hang out with him at lunch.. get everyone in your group to talk to him.. so it doest seem like you are the only one..
2006-10-08 12:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. See what he likes to do. Even if it seems like your flirting it'll be okay. If he asks you out just say no. Who knows maybe you end up liking him like that.
2006-10-08 19:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by miss_lazze08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach him and ask him about where he came from and tell him you understand how it must feel to be new to this school and ask him if he would like to sit with you for lunch, tell him you can always use another friend so he will know it is a friendship. how sweet of you!!!!
2006-10-08 19:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him! Don't worry about what other people think! Middle school and high school are full of people that want to judge you right away! But I just didn't give a damn what people thought!
2006-10-08 19:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. ask him if he wants to hang out and introduce him to you friends. who cares if it seems like you're flirting. I'm like that to and i still talk to every body you. never Know he might turn out to be a really nice guy.
2006-10-08 19:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by E man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him a non personal question .Like..did you get the answer to question #5?It is jr hi and everybody is going to talk anyway. so just be nice and be yourself.
2006-10-08 19:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. Who cares if it looks like you're flirting?
2006-10-08 19:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by theamazingkate! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend. Nothing wrong with that:-)
2006-10-08 19:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him .. and be his friend .. this can help
2006-10-08 19:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Luay14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think he wants any help?
2006-10-08 19:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Always Right 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋