im thinking about leaving my fiance as i have strong suspicians he is cheating on me. this happend to any of you out there. and how didi you get over it.
2006-10-08 12:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My first marriage. I was married 3 weeks and found out. I filed for Divorce.
2006-10-08 12:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I found out that my ex fiance was cheating on me I ended it right there and then. I called him at work then came right out and told him about how I found out and that it shouldn't have happened. By then end of the conversation I had him crying too. After that I hung out with some friends and did anything that took my mind off him. It worked. Just make sure before you leave him that you know for a fact that that's what he's doing.
2006-10-08 19:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably will take a while for you to get over it but if you have suspicians he is cheating and you aren't married yet, get out NOW. You don't need that.
2006-10-08 19:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 10 yrs and I am going t tell you that a marriage is founded on trust if you are already having issue sleavae him save yourself a heck of a lot of heart ache no I am not a mad black woman I have just gone thruit and am going thru it
2006-10-08 19:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by cora7391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there's smoke there's fire! Leave and shop more carefully next time. You need to ask more questions next time, like find out if the new 'he' EVER cheated. Once a cheat always a cheat.
2006-10-08 19:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have had 2 boyfriends cheat on me in my life, never my husband. I dumped them when I found out and never looked back. But, make sure you are right about this before you dump him.
2006-10-08 19:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, my ex fiacee, 3 weeks be4 the wedding, cheated on me. He got his ex pregnaunt, so i had the support of my frinds and family, they kept reminding me that i did the right thing.I also started my hobby again. Photography, I also devolped my own pictures. I guess that was my therapy
2006-10-08 19:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU, IS TO GO STRAIGHT FORWARD AND ASK HIM . A RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST,WICH GOES BOTH WAYS..MAYBE YOU CAN WORK IT OUT BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU .IT'S ALWAYS EASY TO LEAVE THAN TO ASK OR SOLV E THE PROBLEM .
IT'S NEVER EASY TO GET OVER SOMETHING IT JUST TAKES TIME .
2006-10-08 19:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do yourself a favor and get rid of him, the pain you feel from that is going to be nothing compared to the pain you will feel in a marriage where your partner is unfaithful. Good Luck.
2006-10-08 19:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard but there are other men out there , and life is too short to live with insecurities all the time so get rid of him , it's not worth it , you'll be miserable and he'll leave eventually because he'll get sick of you accusing so don't do it.
2006-10-08 19:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋