There is this guy that likes me and is nice,sweet,and funny and a really nice guy!Just one thing I know awful!He is a little overweight,I mean should I go out with him?
2006-10-08 11:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey....im shallow too, i dont date ugly girls or fat girls......i just think they need to be on the same level as me or higher.
2006-10-08 13:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, you are shallow, what does it matter if he is overweight???
what is important is that he is a nice person, and you already admit that he is.
I would rather have an overweight man who is a darling than a hunk who is so up himself that he is an idiot.
get over it...how would you feel is someone didn't want to go out with you one day because you were overweight, or short, or too tall...oh they think that you are a lovely person, but you just don't look good enough... Would it hurt??? I think so
Don't be that person
2006-10-08 19:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amoeba 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are very shallow. The fact that you need other peoples approval about going out with a kid, that from your description is a very nice person is horrible.His weight shouldn't matter. If a guy that you thought was good looking asked you out (even if he was not a nice person) you wouldn't even be here asking this question.
2006-10-08 22:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by velvetduck9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he was a nice guy and that's important. But are you also attracted to him? It'd be shallow if that was all you noticed, but it seems like you noticed other things. Someone can be a great person and you like their company, but you DO need to have some kind of attraction to them. Anyone who says that looks have no bearing are liars. Looks have some meaning.
If you like him and are attracted to him, go out with him. If not, then don't and don't beat yourself up about it.
2006-10-08 20:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by bennyjoe81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not, you're just having a normal first impression/insticnt. Let me tell you, when I first met this one guy in 5th grade, I thought he was such a DORK he dressed really nerdy, was in the 4th grade, had weird hair, etc. but he always tried to talk to me and liked me. Well honey, it's now many many many years later and we've been married for over 4.5 years and are so happy! It took me until about 8th grade to talk to him and become his friend, then until senior year to ask him out. We both think each other was worth the wait! You never know what can happen until you try!
2006-10-08 19:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetie, that is pretty shallow! If he is nice, sweet and funny...give the poor guy a chance, you may really like him!
2006-10-08 19:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
shallow, a little but who isn't guilty of it? I say give him a chance though,he may surprise you. plus if you become close friends or whatever and his weight still bothers you(and it might bother him and u just dont know) try helping him lose a few pounds.
2006-10-08 19:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by ram417 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you ARE shallow. Only YOU would know whether you are willing to go out with him. But I'm sure he deserves someone better to go out with than you.
2006-10-08 19:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I mean he could lose weight anyways especially if he is a teen he will probably end up loosing it... Looks are important kind of because you have to be attracted to somebody I think but you should look at his personality too.
2006-10-08 19:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by lemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must know the saying beauty is only skin deep right?? well if you can't get past the weight issue there is no sense in trying it will be the only thing on your mind ... your not shallow at all ! but maybe you should give it a try ...
2006-10-08 19:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by kfbelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look past his weight. weight isnt really important and yes you are shallow. nice guys are the best kind. trust me. im older and wiser. dont be closedminded you will miss out on the real things in his life yes date him
2006-10-08 19:01:44 · answer #11 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋