my friend got a bf over the internet and her mom found out and she took the internet wire away and she asked me to let her borrow my wire i did one time then she started calling him & texting him. then her mom took her cell away. so she bought a 50 dollar phone (prepaid). and texts him all day at school it is annoying... why would someone spend 50 dollars plus more for minutes to call someone they don't even know. and shes starting to act different like she doesn't talk that much at school anymore bcuz shes to busy texting. how can i talk to her about this?
2006-10-08 11:57:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd say "if he's more of a friend then I am then that means that you don't need me right?" I'd feel like she replaced me with a phone and a guy. talk'n to her would make more since then just leaving her just like that, and solving it makes it a true friendship. Never giving up on her is another true friendship thing to do.
2006-10-08 12:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what girls do. Get her talking about him. Find out his name, and other vital information. Learn whether or not they are talking about sex. Make sure you know when and where she plans to meet him. Just in case, this guy is not who she thinks he is. If you don't want to tell an adult, you and a few others follow her to their meeting place and stop her before she gets into a car, goes into a house or motel. Better yet, tell. You might lose a friend, but save a life.
2006-10-08 19:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Concern 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really cant the best thing u can do is let it play its self out if he is a guy over the net then most likely he is talking to some other girl or girls at the same time and soon enough u will get yur friend back hope that helps if i can help any more tag me back
2006-10-08 19:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by steven t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yank the phone away from her to get her to listen then tell her that she shou;dn't be wasting so much time on someone she doesn't know because soon she will be broke and miserable because relationships like that don't work out
2006-10-08 20:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Crista D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to start hanging out with her REAL friends. If she goes any further then she might lose her real friend and this guy she doesn't even know.
2006-10-08 19:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by BananaWeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this guy could be a creep. it is really not safe what she is doing i would tell her mom for her safety.. scarry scarry.
2006-10-08 19:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by mstycain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u are young, u dont listen but she will learn in time
2006-10-08 19:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋