my wife doesnt love me,we have not been together for 14 years.how can i file annulment of marriage?

Question

We have 2 children,both adults now,My wife threathens me that if i dont comply with support for my kids shes gonna sue me in court and destroy my professioal job.I live with my new partner now and we have 2 kids as well.My wife told me that she will do anything to put me in jail because of cohabitation.Now that i have a good happy life,she is trying to ruin my life.

Answer 1

You can't file for annulment, this is only for a marriage that is less then 6 months old but not more then 1 year. You need to get a old fashion divorce., good luck.

Answer 2

I am confused here. Are your children with your wife going to school (postsecondary education)? Support them in what way? You are beyond the annulment limitations. Divorce is the real word you are in need of.

Do you currently support your wife and household financially?

You agreed to marry your wife -- a life long commitment. I do not know your details, but she is probably thinking you are a real dog. So if you insist on cohabitating with another woman and raising a family (your children) with her, at least get divorced.

How can your wife destroy your professional job? Unless you are in a high profile position, there will probably not be a whole lot she can do in that respect unless she has serious ammo. A few raised eyebrows and maybe even a few cold shoulders, otherwise -- bring closure to what closed a long time ago.

Answer 3

If the children are over 21 tell her to go for it, she will get no where except thrown out of court. If you have not been living in the same household for 14 years another go for it on her part, you are in essence divorced just not on paper. Cohabitation is not illegal, courts have found the law unconstitutional. You will have to file for divorce though since you have 2 children. I would see a lawyer asap and get this bitter, controlling woman off your back!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

if your kids are adults, there isnt anything she can do

Dude i waited 2 mos to file, and i was stupid for waiting so long, you are hella retarded.

You need to find out if your state has no-fault divorce. If it does you are in luck. Since you have been living apart for so long, you should have no problem getting a divorce. Contact a lawyer, it should be fairly simply.

My only word of warning to you is that even though you were apart everything that you ammased during 14 years, is 50% hers, so you might want to change the title of everything before your divorce.

My advice is to put all your junk in your mothers name, no one is in your corner like your mom, not even your new chick

Answer 6

first of all you are resonsible for the children,both money wise and raising them. Your best bet is go for the divorce. The court will tell you how much support you have to pay and will set up visitation rights. You support payment will be sent to clerk of courts office ,who will then keep track of it and then send her the check

Answer 7

WOW..dose your kids still need support ..and you not been to gather with your wife for 14 years ..shouldn't be a problem getting divorce..see a lawyer

Answer 8

Wow, you got me beat! We've only been without sex for 13 years. I don't feel so bad now! I haven't asked my husband for ANYTHING...I just want OUT of the marriage. All I need is to keep my benefits for health care. Oh, and half his retirement pay when he finally retires.
How can your wife expect child support if your and her children are adults? I don't get that part!

Answer 9

why in the world did you stay married??

you can't annul the marriage, get a divorce -and -- you know that when people threaten other people- it's because they have low self esteem- and if you have been the good guy you will be ok--unfortunately for her there's this thing called karma

Answer 10

IF YOU HAVE BEEN SEPARATED FOR MORE THAN 5 YEARS ITS STRAIGHT FORWARD YOU CAN NOT GO TO PRISON FOR COHABITATION THAT IS ABSURD WHERE THE HELL DO YOU LIVE? THAT JUST DOESN,T HAPPEN MAYBE 150 YEARS AGO BUT NOT NOW PLEASE TRUST ME ON THAT ONE IF YOU ARE IN ANY DOUBT ASK ANOTHER QUESTION CAN YOU GO TO JAIL FOR COHABITATION YOU DO NOT PAY SUPPORT FOR ANYONE OVER THE AGE OF16 YOU MAY BUT I DOUBT IT HAVE TO PAY THIS SCHEMING WITCH IS IT CALLED ALIMONY (THAT,S IF YOU ARE AMERICAN ) I THINK YOU ARE PLEASE GET LEGAL ADVISE YOU HAVE THIS ALL WRONG
YOUR GROWN UP KIDS SOUND LIKE SCROUNGING B*******DS TELL THEM TO GET JOBS AND MAKE AN HONEST WOMAN OF THE ONE YOU ARE LIVING WITH TELL THE OLD SCROUNGER GET OVER IT AND GO GET HERSELF A GOOD SEEING TOO THEN SHE WONT BE SO UPTIGHT