ok, so i've been off the pill for a little over 3 months already, my fiance and I have sex everyday, and we're not using any condoms, still I have not become pregnant, is ther something wrong or does it take time? I know it's better to go to the doc, but I'm just wondering if that's normal or not
2006-10-08 11:48:55 · 19 answers · asked by the*cellphone*chik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It took me 9 months to become pregnant after getting off the pill.
2006-10-08 11:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself a little more time, and try to relax. If you are trying to become pregnant it seems that its harder to get way. Relax and enjoy being with your fiance. And stop having sex everyday! There is only a couple days of the month a woman can get pregnant, and my doctor advise me...sometimes too much sex is not a good thing.
The birth control pills have to be out of your system too, and this may take a couple of months. If you were on the pill for over a year, I would not try to get pregnant for at least 3 more months. That way you can be sure of good healthy baby. If you are really upset about this, and want to get pregnant right away. There is a test you can get at the drug store, to show the days out of the month you can conceive. Also, you can try this, after making love don't get up. Prop your hips up on a pillow, and stay that way for at least 45 minutes, don't go to the bathroom or anything. Then don't use any kind of douche products.
Honey, please relax a little, 3 months isn't very long to become with child. I know it's hard to understand, when there are girls that get that way the first time, or trying not get pregnant and become that way everytime they have sex. It just doesn't seem fair, ...try the pillow trick, and good luck .....
2006-10-08 19:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, you need to go to the doctor. They say that you should wait 6 months after going off the pill before you start conception. However, I got pregnant on the pill, so that wasn't a choice in my case. Many factors can play a part here, you might be trying too hard. I know that sounds goofy, but it's true. Stress plays a big part when you are trying to get pregnant. It is very normal that you haven't gotten pregnant yet. Alot of women have sex everyday and it's takes them years to get pregnant. You should check with your doctor. Have your husband check with his doctor as well. The problem could be him or you or no problem at all. Good luck.
2006-10-09 13:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I take it that you're TRYING to get pregnant? And I also take it that he is 100% with you on this endeavor?
When me and the ex were trying for a baby, we tried too damn hard. The every-night sex got downright boring and it felt as if I were performing a chore. Plus it physically wore me out. It got to the point to where I couldn't even ejaculate because of the sexual overkill. Finally I said to hell with this and told her, when it happens - it happens. The next thing I knew, we got our wish. Stop trying to force it, if not you both are going to get very frustrated.
Usually the best time for conception is a week or two after your period. Relax and enjoy yourselves.
2006-10-08 19:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while for your system to return to normal. Worst case scenario, it can take about a year and a half to two years, but only very rarely does it take that long. Give it about 6 more months.
Also, it depends on how long you were on the pill continuously. You're supposed to take a year-long break every 5 years or so, so if you haven't been, it could take longer for you to conceive.
2006-10-08 18:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by mooo83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to bring a child in this world and your not married yet?
What's the rush?
Why not ''stop trying'' and enjoy the intimacy of it just being you and your fiance. Focus on planning your wedding and honeymoon, seeing the world, building some wealth, prior to having children.
When the Lord sees fit he will Bless your MARRIAGE with a child.
2006-10-08 18:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the doc told me that having sex every day lessons the chances of getting my wife pregnant because it dos not let the mans sperm produce enough living tadpoles , sperm what ever anyway he told us to lay of sex for a week or two and then try and low and behold we have 3 lovely children now and prier to that we had been trying for 3 years with no luck so i hope this might help you
2006-10-08 20:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took my sister in law almost three years to get pregnant after going off the pill. Relax if it happens it happens. Worring doesn't help anything.
2006-10-08 19:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by aelenaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi , i think there`s only a couple day`s a month you can get pregnant....when your ovulating .....so that means like ...15 day`s after your period or something like it so you should wait to make love more in that period of time i would think ......but then again it all depend s when your ovulating and when .......good luck to you guy`s....Janet
2006-10-08 18:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by janbab47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could take a year , you have had only 3 fertile periods in that time so it depends if every thing is back to normal, just relax and take it easy , after a year then you may need some tests
2006-10-08 18:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋