My ex iss in juvinille detention center and i have been here for him through thick and thin. I wrote him a letter and I accpeted the first call {1.75} and he said " why u send me that bullshit *** letter dont write me ever again *****" So He called again and said it was important i accepted it and he had some guy on the phone talking ****. I dont even know who the guy was.... anyways thats another 1.75.. i did NOTHING TO HIM.. i feel used once again.. I just dont understand and when I asked him what was he talking about he called me a ***** and told me not to awnser the phone like that.. What should i do? should i accept one more and ask him what? he keeps hanging up on me.. HELP?????
2006-10-08 11:47:34 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's your EX. You don't owe him anything. People in detention or jail make a habit of using people in the outside world. What he doesn't realize, is that you won't necessarily allow him to use you, especially if he abuses you at the same time. Turn him loose. He'll either shape up, or otherwise it won't be much of a loss, right?
2006-10-08 11:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you forget about him. If he's calling you bad names hes not doing anything good for you. And well I know how you feel. My ex was the same way. You'll find a better guy....and it sounds like he doesn't want to be friends so stop being there for him.
2006-10-08 13:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time talking to him when he's a ex.Your parents are going to be pissed when they see the charges.Do the smart thing and tell them about the charges you've already accepted before the bill comes and don't do it again.If you just have to talk to him,wait till he gets out no matter how long he's going to be there.
2006-10-08 11:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a really messed up kid to be in juvie in the first place. Get rid of him. He is not worth your time, and he can never love you the way you need to be loved. Ignore him. You are so much better off without him.
He needs help, but he can't get it from you hun.
2006-10-08 11:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by theamazingkate! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is, he's not worth your time. Move on to someone who is going to treat you with dignity and respect, and treats his own life in the same fashion. This boy obviously is immature and misguided, and it is not your job to fix him.
2006-10-08 11:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't answer his calls. He sounds stupid to treat his ex bad, more so since you been there for him though thick and thin. Ignore!!!
2006-10-08 11:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by mymack79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to answer and just tell him to shove it because he just lost somthing that was great he will just do it again if u take him back so u DONT or at least i wouldnt he is treating u like ****!!!
2006-10-08 11:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by long_linky_morgster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he is in jail and ur the problem? over a letter? is he stupid or mentally retarded. It sounds like ur young and too good for this fool
2006-10-08 11:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he calls except the charges record it and tell him that having his new boyfriend make harrassing calls is out of line and if he doesnt lose your number you are going to have him beat down
2006-10-08 11:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn' give any guy the time of day if he treated me like that. now that he is away it looks like a good time to get over him
2006-10-08 11:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋