ok heres the situation my boyfriiend and i live together at first my boyfriend was so nice and sweet and charming but now hes the total opposite hes mean and rude to me he never spends time with me all he does is go out to parties smoke and drink with his friends he never wants to have sex with me ive tried putting on linguri and everything ive even tried stripping for him he never tells me he loves me ive tried talking to him ive told him how i felt ive even cried to him ive tried breaking up with him i mean mayb its me i dont know he says i make him feel less of a man and i dont accept him but thats only bcuz i ask him to help clean up the house and he never does it like i ask him to take out the trash and the trash will stay there for weeks full to the brim i still love him though and it hurts me so much bcuz i want things to be like they used to be
2006-10-08 11:47:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU ARE A MORON! for staying with him!
2006-10-08 11:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only up to him to change and it's sad to say there is nuthing u can do to change his ways. Stuff like that happens to relatioonships all the time. Mostly because he is cheating on her or he really just doesn't care and don't respect you as a person. If I were you, as hard as it may be I would stop trying and give up. I would leave him because it shouldn't be you who has done everything for him who is at home upset all the time because he's out doing what he wants to do. You are too much of a great woman to be treated like crap and if he doesn't see that then he shouldn't deserve someone like you! just be strong and surround yourself with ppl that you no will help you get through it and not let you go back to the same hopless routine
2006-10-08 18:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well , you do have a big problem. I wouldnt know what to do in your case. My advice is dont just give up if you really love him. Also dont let him treat you like that. Sadly if he acts the same well honey you GOT to leave him. Maybe if you guys do break up he realize how much you were worth and what he lost. Goodluck.
2006-10-08 19:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to "take out the trash".
2006-10-08 19:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like you have tried everything. maybe it is time to move on.
2006-10-08 18:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by ......................... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋