guys,when you look for someone to settle with,what exactly are you looking for?

Answer 1

Someone who I've got something in common with. Who'll be there for me. Who is mature minded. I desire someone who is child-like, but not childish, mature but not old, progressive but not Feminist, spiritual but not religious, strong and fit but not an Amazon, a good healthy sex drive but not a whore, a good conversationalist but not someone who won't shut up, and most of all...I want someone who I can count on to be there for me when I need her. In other words, not someone with her own life, her own friends, her cell phone, her career, and her things. When we can say, "we", "us", "our friends," "our things," and "our life" is when I would take the next step, not a minute before that.

Answer 2

The girl I look for 1st of has to be loyal, honest, and even-tempered. If I have something to say that seem like a correction or a complaint, she will listen intently and discuss it civilly if need be, but not argue or get defensive. A woman who can think outside-the-box. Who looks at the logic and not just follow the same old thing. A woman who is confident in her appearance where she do not need to pack on the war paint or other things that are not natural. A woman who is loyal and will fight and defend me and our union as hard as I would fight and defend her. A woman who works as a team; like a lock with a key. One that understands that we both may have different roles in the relationship, but together it works like a key to a lock. That she does not try to be a second lock because two locks and no keys are useless. A woman who is active though not one who can never sit still. She likes to go cycling in the country side or hiking in the hills. One wherer the gym is a plae she loves to go, not flee from in eight directions. One who cares about her health and want a healthy appearance. One who is obedient and mindfull to what I say to her because she knows she would be treated better than the king's gold, and by that she would trust me until the ice caps melted.

Secondary if she was between 4 ft 10 in to 5 ft 4in 98 to 121lb, 32B to 34D, long black straight hair just shy of her bum, with the body of an ice skater, gynmast, or beach vollyball player it would be perfect.

Answer 3

settle with ? well, for me , it is her heart , the way she loves me , the things she does . how she takes care of herself , her children , her home , ... of course physical attraction helps , but you cannot judge a book by it cover, you have to deeper inside to get the real person from within .... thats where the love is . of course if the both of you enjoy one anothers company and find just being together is as wonderful as going out .