2006-10-08 11:26:36 · 32 answers · asked by Martin F 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
HOW TO ASK IS UP TO YOU
but where is important-ask her when she's by herself-with no stupid girlfriends around-they can kill it for you before it starts
2006-10-08 11:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy it will be a bit of problem, just work out your courage and ask her out. You might affraid of rejection, most of time women will give you a shot at datting them. Hey... it never hurts to ask, just don't take it so hard on a rejection. Cause atleast you tried.
2006-10-08 11:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by GMC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this.....
You walk up to her (when you can get her on her own) and you say....
"I'm sorry about this, but I have this problem about being shy, and I'd like to ask you to go out with me on a date, but I'm too nervous to. And so, I'm left wondering what would be your answer?''
Try and take a 'negative' and use it (like judo) and to turn into a 'positive' (using Judo metaphor's impetus) to move things forward.
Give it a try ...and be sure to report back.
Best of Luck.
Sash.
2006-10-08 11:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find 4 other girls that you also like. Then you won't feel so attached to the outcome of asking this one.
Also try flirting with you until she confronts you instead. I did this with a subordinate once by accident. Well not by accident but nature took it's course despite me trying not to let it.
or just go here http://www.sosuave.com/
2006-10-08 11:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by goose1077 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she interested in? Find out what she likes to eat and then take her to a restaurant that she might like. Try this on as many girls as you want knowing that you need experience in hearing a negative response. Remember, expect 9 no's to one yes!!!
2006-10-08 11:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If your intention is good there's nothing to be shy about. If she turn it down, atleast you tried but if you don't try you will never know, so go and ask her! There's no harm in trying!!!
2006-10-08 15:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by -j4n3- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the plunge mate..... It aint the end of the world if she says no. But you will kick yourself if you dont and it turns out 5 yrs down the line that she did infact like you but is now unfortunately engaged. GO FOR IT!!!
2006-10-08 11:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by shevlad2004 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its the fear of rejection is it just know that life is short and you may never get another chance I dont have many weeks left myself so do it for me and if she says no ask another, most likely she is so wanting to be asked out by a boy if your not a boy dont bother and ignore all ive said
2006-10-08 11:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by wisecrack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to just ask her. You've got to be bold and confident. Whats the worse she can do, say no? It's hardly the end of the world, and at least you'll know if she likes you or not. Good Luck :)
2006-10-08 11:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might help. Try relating to her like she was family, you know like your 'sister' or 'cousin'. This way you will be more relaxed around her. Eye contact but "don't" stare......
say something like, "What would you say if I were to ask you out on a date?" wait for the answer with a cheeky smile!
use her answer to your advantage...
2006-10-08 11:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by Legend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im havin the same prob but i need to ask this boy out.ok lets both take a chance .ok lets just take a deep breatth lets make sure we take alot of time on r hair and clothes well i guess.ok just walk up to her and say im-----------i realy like you can we go out some time?
ok lets hope that works for us
2006-10-08 11:34:31 · answer #11 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋