What would u do if someone says that ur boyfriend has died?

Answer 1

Well, when this happened to me 6 years ago when I was 20, I first asked "What" like 3 times cause it was just so, surreal, it didn't seem like that could actually happen, you know, it's something you see in the news papers. Then, I started crying and had my friend bring me to my house where I lived with my parents. After bawling my eyes out for a few hours, I stopped crying and just "zoned out" per say. I just stared, stopped functioning almost. My mom told me she had to carry me upstairs, change me into my pj's then layed in my twin bed with me all night. After that, I cried every day and every night for six months straight. I even believe I heard his spirit whisper my name, just my name, once. I talked so much about his death to whomever would listen. I put together a notebook of articles of his car accident, notes we had written to each other, and poems I had written to help me cope with the ordeal. I also ran like 6 miles a day, just running and thinking.

I lost a lot of friends cause they said I talked too much about it, they just didn't support me instead of embracing me. But I got over it pretty fast because I got it out of my system and got over it. Life goes on, and we only move forward. But do take the time you need to deal with it in your own way. Moving on doesn't mean you will forget, you will never forget, his memory and his spirit will be with you always,and there is nothing wrong with remembering, mourning is natural, just dont dwell on it and let it take you're life over, move on, you still have a life to live, life goes on and it beckons for you when you are ready. My condolances and good luck. God Bless.

Answer 2

I would find out if it were true first and foremost.
It happened w/ me once , maybe not a boyfreind , but w/ a bestfreind. We lived a few counties away so I wanted to verify it before i let myself feel.

Then I found out that it was true , I cried , I reached out to my ma , but she didn't think it was serious. SHe said , so what people die.

It took my heart years to deal , if mentally accept that he was gone. I cried , I hated everyone.

I couldn't beleive he was gone.
Then one day it just sank in (some years latter although)
and I sat down and I cried.
and i wrote him a letter and I sat it outside under the rosebush near my house.
I cried some more.

and I survived
God has his purpose for all things.

Answer 3

I did not know I had a boyfriend anymore. After all I am straight now.

But if you asked.

What would you do if someone says that your girlfriend has died?
I do not know, I would not want to experience that. I could not handle it I know. I cannot handle her being in another state.

Answer 4

I don't know aht I would do if someone told me that. I probably won't even believe it. I'd go crazy without him. I hope you're not asking because it happened to you. I would just try to find ppl who I can rely on to help me get through it but it won't be easy. It makes me upset just thinking of it.

Answer 5

There are not anything to can do, that happen to me 3 years old and I had to do a lot of pray to keep from losing my mind when my boy friend died.as time past it got better.

Answer 6

given the information was true.....i dont' know what i would do. my world might turn upside down and i would have no motivation what-so-ever. i would go to my friends.
i'm hoping you didn't post that because you know of somone who is going through this or you are going through it. if so then i'm very, very sorry to whoever it is.

Answer 7

what do you mean? like some random person off the street,or a cop,or what,do you not talk to your boyfriend enough to know whether hes alive or dead.

Answer 8

Faint and then when I come to, I would cry throughout the rest of the days.

Answer 9

well i dont have a bf,,since im straigt but if i was told my gf was dead, i would want proof before i believe it,,but i would be alarmed until the news was proven or disproven

Answer 10

Probably pass out and then cry myself to sleep.