2006-10-08 11:00:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly, no. Call me crazy but when you carry a child inside your body and give birth to them, there's something called a bond. You can't have that bond with a child that some other woman gave birth to. Also, if the step-childrens mother is a crazy ***** psycho (which happens to be the case in my situation), it affects the way the kids interact with you. But everyone hopes and dreams for that perfect situation where everyone gets along peachy keen dandy.
2006-10-08 11:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love has nothing to do whatsoever with biology and people who put their biological children above those who are step-children, are just plain selfish! I have 3 step-sons and through my "own" middle son and youngest daughter have 2 step-grandchildren. I love them all equally. BIOLOGY SHOULD NEVER MATTER WHEN A CHILD IS INVOLVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-08 18:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want the honest answer sometimes you do and sometimes you don't you are always going to love them but when it comes to your real child your going to show a little more favor. i try to do my best to equal out the love but it's always going to be in the back of your mind wheater you want to admit it or not and that's a secret i am taking to my grave. but i will never miss treat them or treat them unfair but when it comes to your heart you can't help that. you can't seperate someone you produce to someone you have to mold.if any woman says you will she's lying.i have custody of my step child and it's not easy to remold a child if you know what i mean.i love them both but in a different way good luck
P.S foster kids are different then step!!!!!
foster you choose to get the kids
step that a package deal
2006-10-08 18:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by layn22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I love my child more but you can grow to love a step child just as much
2006-10-08 18:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by jharris8506 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i have four children two are my own two are foster children i love them just as much as my own children they are my children i couldn't be without them ever they are all my babies forever
2006-10-08 18:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by cassie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ~ they come as a package deal !
2006-10-08 18:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes of course
what's the problem
2006-10-09 02:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by 1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋