2006-10-08 10:50:42 · 14 answers · asked by a.t.p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell him nicely you''ve changed ur mind!
2006-10-08 10:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it the relationship that you want to end, or do you just want to postpone the engagement?
Many years ago I was in the same position, although I was too afraid to back out with 3 weeks until the wedding. My marriage, consequently, only lasted 11 months. If your mind is telling you that it is not right, then you need to take action. Be honest and upfront about how you feel... as it will avoid any huge regrets you may have down the line. If you are feeling this way now, do you think you will feel any better once you're married? If it makes you feel better, talk to your parents about how you are feeling first --- once you receive their support, you will be stronger to make the next move... the RIGHT move for you.
2006-10-08 17:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sue_Render_Urself_2Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yours or someone elses?? Also, what type of engagement? As in Marriage or dinner date? Okay - If you're talking about marriage (your own) Let your "partner" know that you really don't think you're ready ... explain why you feel that way. If you're talking about (someone elses) marriage engagement, a good time to do that is ... well why would someone wanna do that!? If you're talking about a dinner date type of engagement - call the parties involved and just say "Hey, sry, can't make it ..." yeah.
2006-10-08 17:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ma'êšeeonáhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to do this a long time ago. It was quite painful and a really scary thing to do. But if you are engaged to someone and are not ready to get married and do not want to be with them anymore, it is easier now than after you get married to them. I did it on the telephone because truthfully, I couldnt look him in the face. Good luck!!!
2006-10-08 17:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by amandaangel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it soon before you have to break up the marriage for not hving enough courage to break up the engagement. Talk about it!
2006-10-08 17:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat
2006-10-08 17:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by wayne7in 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell that person...that you are not ready for commitment..and that you thought you were...but you may have rushed into things too soon....you also need to tell that person...that you would not feel comfortable at all leading them into the wrong direction....just speak from your heart i don't know of any better way you could tell em...other then the fact that your just not ready....good luck!!
2006-10-08 18:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short, sweet and quick don't waite till you get to close to wedding day. just say i thought you were at one time,but also time has let me know that your not the one for me, it not working for me . and say no more then that or you may find your self getting talked in to something you don't want to do just to make that person happy and your happyness counts to
2006-10-08 17:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conversation!! Be honest....not a cheating pig.... changing your mind now and not when married...you are doing the right thing....
2006-10-08 17:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say goodbye. Whats your reason behind it?
2006-10-08 17:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by twistedangel4023 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋