here's my issue, i have new neighbors whose names i dont know who enjoy having sex, loud sex, with their windows wide open. how do you approach people who you dont know and request that they close their windows during such times.
2006-10-08 10:45:36 · 22 answers · asked by lepeka_w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Approach the person who is the same sex as you privately. Tell them that you are glad that they have an active and enjoyable sex life, but would prefer that they not share it with you and the rest of the neighborhood. If that doesn't work, call the police and tell them you can't be sure but you think that you are hearing a domestic violence dispute and that the woman sounds like she is being really hurt. Tell them to send the police right away.
2006-10-08 10:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Record them from your yard or wherever it's most audible. Tape a few "episodes" then box it up with a note asking them nicely to stop "sharing the love" with the neighborhood & mail it. If that doesn't embarrass them, get some neighbors to go stand nearest their window, not on their property, stare at the house and then blast music at them. Hopefully they'll get the hint. If all that fails, call the cops, they will get a citation for "disturbing the peace"
Good Luck with this one!!
2006-10-08 10:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's uncomfortable.
Just be outward about it... they'll be a lot more uncomfortable then you will.
Say something like, "Listen, I know we're not too accquainted yet, but I feel like I know you WAY too well. I'd appreciate it if you kept your windows closed while having sex."
Unless, of course, they want you to hear. Then there's pretty much nothing you can do about it... There are some weird people out there.
2006-10-08 10:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by collegegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in similar situations with neighbors & housemates, so I know how awkward it is.
1st, why not introduce yourself to your new neighbors, but don't bring up the issue right away. Then, if you think they'll take it well, politely bring it up. Caution: If they're obviously drunk or on drugs, It's best not to mention it. In this case, wait till they've sobered up or just leave an anonymous note.
2006-10-08 11:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I would leave an anonymous note, the same thing was happening to me last month but i live in an apartment buiding so i would just bang on the wall until they stopped- the horrible part was the were on the opposite side of the wall where my 1 year old son was sleeping
2006-10-08 11:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by mrs rubberducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you know their address I would mail them an anonymous letter. Be polite, no name calling. But ask them to lower their windows and be more discreet. If all else fails you can call the police, it is a crime. But try a letter or two first.
2006-10-08 10:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by pearl7462 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bang on the wall and tell them to keep the noise down. Alternatively you could always have some pleasure in the bedroom yourself which might distract you from whats going on next door.
2006-10-08 10:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by pixiechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would go to the landlord ,but if that dont work just politely go over and say im not trying to be rude, I would want someone to tell me if it were reversed .and tell them when there window is open sound travels .good luck .
2006-10-08 10:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel really akward, maybe you can just leave a note in their mailbox either anonymously or not... Or you can just knock on their door, introduce yourself and just politely explain the issue. Good Luck! = )
2006-10-08 10:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Miss*Curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that was loud too. Her neighbor called the police. She was so embarrass that she stuff a sock in her mouth after that. Maybe call the police----
2006-10-08 10:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋