My ex boyfriend was at a football game and my friend was sitting with us. He asked what would make me jealous. I was like nothing because I thought nothing would make me jealous. But then he puts his arm around her and she flirts with this other guy I like. She called my name and I turned around and she was rubbing it in my face. Is it normal for me to be jealous and feel betrayed?
2006-10-08 10:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First you need to talk to her about. Did she intentually do it for the sole purpose Of making you jealous or maybe she has been going through a hard time and it helped her a little bit to forget about things. Tell her that you feel hurt but you don't want to loose her as a Friend. Also, do you know if ht girl likes a guy. Maybe at the football game the guy that she liked was there and she was trying to get him jealous. Talk to her, tell her that you don't want to loose her as a Friend but that you are very hurt by her actions. Ask her if she likes either guy that she was talking with. Hope this works. Feel better. Don't worry if she apologizes and says that she won't do it again that's a real friend but if she doesn't apologize she isn't a real friend at all. Hope everything works out OK. Also, maybe the guy your ex boyfriend was trying to make you jealous and your Friend was not.
2006-10-09 00:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by diane976821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah a friend shouldnt do that, and an ex who would do that is only trying to get a reaction out of you. ont give them the satisfaction of knowing how you feel. Ignore it and go on your way. In time you will find someone who really cares and respects your feelings and then it will be they who are jealous
2006-10-08 10:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 23:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by mctaggart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's normal. Your friend is a b****. Actually, she's not your friend at all, now is she?
Don't hang out around her or the ex anymore. They're what Ann Landers would've called "toxic friends".
2006-10-08 10:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by acct4em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be upset over what they did so much as the fact that they purposefully did things with the sole reason of upsetting you. I'd feel betrayed that they hoped to hurt me.
2006-10-08 10:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CERTAINLY! What they did was STRAIGHT UP disrespectful and low. You call her a friend? Girl, lemmi tell ya - You're better than that junk! Forget about them. But no, you're not wrong for having those feelings, and most certainly you're normal!
2006-10-08 10:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ma'êšeeonáhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're playing mind games with you, trying to make themselves feel better at your expense. Get away from these mean-spirited people, and hang out with people who are nicer.
2006-10-08 12:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that isnt right of her she shouldnt be hitting on your ex-boyfriend that just is not right you need to talk to her and tell her that your friendship is at risk because of her hitting on your exboyfriend
2006-10-08 10:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to feel angry... as he is cheating on you in a sense... but I don't think he realised what damaged he has done by doing it
2006-10-08 10:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She jealous of you, she is a c-u-next-tuesday, AND she is NOT your friend.
2006-10-08 11:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋