2006-10-08 10:25:39 · 9 answers · asked by dani_pooh12 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
use a lubricated condom and sit on him so you're the one controlling the penetraton. If it hurts too much, stop, finish him by hand/mouth, and try again a few days later. You may also want to start with a finger or 2 before tackling a penis.
2006-10-08 11:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going on the assumption that you are old enough to be making a decision like this, here's my answer:
For some women, it does hurt. Don't forget, the first time you have sex it breaks skin, so theres a possibility of bleeding too.
My best advice is to relax, and not think about it. But if it does get too painful, just tell your bf to stop.
ALWAYS use protection. Also, you might be worth going to visit your practice nurse at your GP surgery or having a chat with someone at the family planning clinic - or there are some sex advice organisations and clinics around. Plenty to choose from.
Just be sure its what you really want before rushing into anything. Make it something you'll remember and cherish, rather than regret.
2006-10-08 10:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off know your own mind and heart but chances are you are still way too young. It hurts because the hyman is broken and it will bleed. Not pleasant and certainly not something you want to give up to just anyone - he should really love you not just been pressuring you to give in cuz he'll be up and gone and won't talk to you anymore but he will tell all the guys at school what you did. Some boys will tell you how if you don't he cannot stop the pain in his nuts and that is just BS. A loving and patient partner will make all the difference in the pain department - slow and steady wins the race.
Always use protection.
2006-10-08 13:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you have to ask this question you must be young, so answering this question is not something I will do, You need to sit down with your mother and ask these questions and get information about protection. If you can't ask your mother ask someone you're close to. Before you have sex and make no mistake that's all it is make sure you're doing it because you want to and not because you want to keep or please your boyfriend. The first time should be special for you with someone you planning on spending the rest of your life with. Remember once you give it away you can never get it back.
2006-10-08 15:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could possibly hurt a bit, but it might also be the best thing you've ever experienced. You'll never know unless you go for it.
2006-10-08 10:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by hopeless 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my first time didn't hurt, but i hear that it can hurt. i think it feels great. but use protection...
2006-10-08 10:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by RN806 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't die from it, haha, that's just silly. But, if it's your first time, yes it will hurt.
2006-10-08 10:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. You can die having sex it's so painful.
2006-10-08 10:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
dunno how old you are, I'm not going to give instructions or info to a possible minor... but what ever decision you make, use protection.
2006-10-08 10:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋