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Have you had both circumcised and uncircumcised partners?

Which do you prefer?

Why?

How did intercourse feel different?

would/did u circumcise your boys?

2006-10-08 10:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

7 answers

I would never circumcise a son! It is genital mutilation and should not be forced on helpless babies!

I have had both cut and uncut partners, and uncut is much, much better! (Gentler but more exciting "gliding" action.) Just as important, an intact man experiences much more pleasure himself.

Circumcision is an anti-sexual practice that was once thought necessary to keep boys from masturbating. (It did not work.) Then various other "advantages" were made up to justify it - they are all just myths - there is NO health or hygiene advantage to this barbaric practice!

No competent medical authority now recommends it. It should not be done to anyone except in very, very rare cases where the foreskin is not properly formed. Boys are perfect the way they are born - they don't need to have parts of their bodies chopped off!

2006-10-12 07:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0 0

I have only had an circumcised partner. So I can't say that I know a difference. My husband is trying to restore his foreskin.

I will not circumcise my son. It is an outdated procedure that is pure torture on an infant and has no medical or therapeutic value. It is only cosmetic. I'm not going to inflict needless surgery on my sons for cosmetic reasons. If he (or my daughter for that matter) want cosmetic surgery when they're an adult they're welcome to go ahead.

Also the current rate of circumcision in the US is about 55% and dropping so its not likely that other boys his age are all going to be circumcised.

2006-10-08 17:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by herdoula 6 · 1 1

I circumcised my son for two reasons. First, it is a hygiene thing. There are just too many germs and things that can get in there and it is soooo hard to keep it clean. Second, it was cosmetic. I have nephews who weren't circumcised and as soon as the oldest one turned 18 he went and had it done at a doctors office. Because most boys are circumcised, it is really embarassing for those who aren't.

2006-10-08 17:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by lilia_164 2 · 1 1

Intercourse feels the same with both. As long as the uncircumsized guy has good hygiene habbits, and pulls back the foreskin and washes well, its fine. I had my son circumcised for 2 reasons. 1- My husband is circumcised, and 2, I have worked in a nursinghome for 10 years, and alot of workers don't tend to pull back the foreskin(my pet peve) which leads to alot of gunk and grossness underneath, can cause infection and so on. I don't want my son to be one of those guys when he is old, and to the health care providers, please pull back the foreskin when washing people, its part of normal hygiene so get over whatever you think is weird about it. If they can't do it themselves, that is what we are there for!!!

2006-10-08 17:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 4 3

Women prefer circumcised because they are freaks of nature!




The “medical” reasons for circumcision are for Doctors to make MONEY!!!
Circumcision is “nothing” compared to other much more terrible things that people do for MONEY, when MONEY is involved EVERYRHING is possible, MONEY is the priority not moral values, not ethics, not health, not wrong or right, not even human life, etc. People are selfish by nature. And that is soooo sad. $$$CASH$$$

MOTHERS, the feelings of mothers who observed the circumcision of their babies. Go here if you have the courage:
http://www.circumcision.org/mothers.htm
They do not remember the pain when they grow up, but I wonder what kind of neurological/emotional damage it does to inflict such severe pain to such a young one!

In the US circumcision started to stop boys from masturbating; they will take much longer to reach the orgasm, and the orgasm will not be as intense, but that will not stop them.
Nowadays the “medical” reasons to circumcision are for Doctors to make MONEY!!!

RELIGION--If God intended boys to not have "skin" He would have made them so.
Also, if you examine the bible, lest just say that is full of terrible things that are considered very illegal nowadays, and many of those terrible things are AGAINST WOMEN. Women, how would you like it if those things get legalized?
http://www.nocirc.org/religion/

HYGIENE--Use a new invention, soap and water!!! Women produce much more “smegma”, all kinds of discharges, wetness, and smells; because of physiologic and anatomical reasons, and how would you feel if they cut your vulva lips??? Women, why don’t you answer my question, are you afraid? Baby girls are more likely to get urinary tract infections and no one suggests we surgically alter them at birth to reduce the risks! Just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse.

MEDICAL REASONS--No medical reasons. A extremely small chance of a complication do not justify the removal of the foreskin, if so, why don't we remove the tonsils and the appendix when a child is born, and the chance of complications of the tonsils and the appendix is much greater. And what is even greater is the chance of breast cancer so the best thing to do is to remove the breast glands of young girls or at least remove them at the first sign of trouble without trying any alternative treatments first in order to preserve the breast(women, how do you like it now?). And for infections of all the organs, including female organs, use a new invention called antibiotics. Talking about complications, in fact many baby boys die each year from circumcision and related complications.
EVEN if “TRUE phimosis” occurs, instead of chopping it off like barbarians!, use Conservative Treatments like:
-Topical Medication(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Dilation and Stretching(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Combination treatment(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Preputioplasty is the medical term for plastic surgery of the prepuce or foreskin(many methods).
If you want more detail on Conservative Treatments, go here:
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/
http://www.circinfo.org/alternatives.html
The foreskin can still be tight even after puberty, and it is natural, not TRUE phimosis.
And now they invented a new reason to make money, the risk of STD in uncircumcised men. Well actually uncircumcised men have more protection, but in practical terms that protection means nothing, because circumcised or not, if you have sex without protection and your partner have an STD you will be infected FOR SURE! That means, it is just one more stupid and desperate reason in order to make money with circumcisions.

SEX--Foreskin actually enhances the sexual experience for men because it constantly moves over the head of the penis causing more friction and pleasure. Men will also lose much sensitivity to the glans if circumcised.
Circumcised men will have to deal with discomfort and dry glans. Uncircumcised men, pull the foreskin back for a day, and see how it feels against your underwear all day, and see what happens. The frenulum is the G SPOT in men.
The foreskin have those functions: protective, erogenous, sensory, and sexual physiologic. After all, why would you want to lose all of those “Meissner corpuscles”, the same nerve complexes which provide fine touch to the fingertips?
It is there for many reasons, that is how a man should be(it is natural).
If women like it better circumcised because it looks better(strange, not natural) or gives them more sexual pleasure(strange, not natural), then too bad, they do not have the right! All men do not like mutilated vulvas, and all men like breasts with nipples, they do not like mutilated breasts, etc, etc, etc, because that is the way those organs are supposed to be, it is natural. Interesting, isn’t?!!!

If that was a common practice to do that to baby girls, all the women would be in a BIG UPROAR about it(and men too!, men are not like women), but it’s ok to mutilate little boys. The great majority of the ones that agree with circumcision are women for their stupid selfish reasons. Even court cases reported in which mother and father fight because the mother wants to mutilate the son, it is always the mother!. You women should be ashamed to that to your son. Men that are not circumcised, will not get circumcised when adults, they would scream, kick, fight and run, if someone tries to mutilate their privates area, just like you women would run too if someone tried to do that to your labia. Men that where circumcised do not realize what they lost because never had one, and most of them that do realize try to justify it so they do not feel bad about it. Many circumcised men feel very bad emotionally because of what was done to them to such a private area.
It is mutilation of defenceless children in the most private spot, genital mutilation.
It is cruel and barbaric.
It is a human rights violation.
It is not the parent’s decision; it is the parent’s decision if they want to abuse him, rape him, or to kill him? It is the parent’s decision to choose the son religion? How can he chose a religion or his believes, if he is just a baby?
I do not even agree that it is ok if an adult man wants to get circumcised. I think it is wrong, because if a man wants to lose a finger, the Doctor can not do that to him. Think about it, think, think. And by the way, adult men that decide to get circumcised, do it because they know most women like it, they just do it to be more accepted by women.
I think it is just like slavery and all other barbaric acts of the past, it was accepted because it was common practice or tradition, everyone accepted slavery without questioning the facts, but it is not accepted anymore in a modern and fair and civilized society. Circumcision must not be allowed, BY LAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many other reasons not to do it, check it out:
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/
http://www.noharmm.org/
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/boydies.html

2006-10-09 17:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by miniboi6666 2 · 0 1

Personally, I prefer CUT!!!! Uncut it looks like a turtle.
Kinda a turn-off.

2006-10-08 17:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by ARE YOUR NEWFS GELLIN'? 7 · 1 4

i have only been with circumsized guys. just my luck i guess. uncircumsized scares me. my son is circumsized. cuz it's cleaner and stuff and his dad is circumsized.

2006-10-08 17:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 1 1

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