K I love the fact me and my gf can spend the night together it's awesome but all my friends say it isn't normal she's the first gf I've ever actually wanted to be around 24/7. Is this weird? I mean I still want it to happen just wondering what u think, but I really like it u know waking up to my gf gives me a reason to look forward to tomorrow and now her Mom is thinking about letting her move in with me when I turn 18 is this normal? Just wanna know what u think.
2006-10-08 10:09:21 · 19 answers · asked by nothingforthebest666 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
dude I do hang out but I make sure Britt (my gf ) is there. And my parents don't care. and it itsn't a crush it's love when u wake up to it's like a reason for the next day. We do everything and no her Mom is a good person just trusts us.
2006-10-08 10:24:37 · update #1
and no it's not hormones cuz I don't blush when I'm around her I just sigh with releife knowing it's not some amazing dream it's real. We make all the troubles go away with each other in fact she accidently left her journal open just a few minutes ago and she wrote that she loves me and I feel the same. It's like this weird sensation comes over me I've never felt before when I dream I dream about her, it's amazing.
2006-10-08 10:34:27 · update #2
wow something is seriously wrong with that mother. i dont know what she is thinking but its not good. maybe she wants her daughter to get pregnant...? i would stay away from that house.
ps what do your parents say about this? dont they notice you are not spending the night at home??
2006-10-08 10:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal...no way in hell...Im 16 my boyfriend is 18 and sometimes my parents are weird about him being over my house late..He has spent the night before but its not a normal thing.. I dont know what the heck is wrong with her mom..She's letting her child be too grown up. I love waking up with my boyfriend, but I also know that im not an adult and that i can not try to make this a routine..Your parents just let you do this?? Both of your parents need to be PARENTS not FRIENDS.
2006-10-08 18:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by babiigurl_iz_a_shorty_904 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal I don't know, but I do think that it ISN'T healthy! I appreciate that you enjoy being with her and the happiness that she brings you, but with that you two are very young. At 13 and 15 you two are just to young to be sexually active, in my humble opinion. And, her mother should know that and parent accordingly. If you do truely love your gf you should treat her well and give your relationship the respect it deserves. Hence, if her mom lets you sleep over you need to be responsible and make good decisions. If that means you're not comfortable sleeping over, or sleep in another room, or sleep over but just cuddle with your gf and abstain from sex, or if you BOTH decide that you are ready to have sex together then use condoms and think about her starting birth control also. It really sounds like her mom is rushing your relationship knowing how old you both are. You two should decide what you are okay with and go with that. Don't be pressured to do anything else. Good luck.
2006-10-08 17:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea77thst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not normal.
It isn't just a simple matter of trust - it is a matter of not thinking on the part of this girl's mother. Hormones can, and do, get out of hand and the two of you are too young to get into that whole pandora's box at this stage in your lives.
There's lots of guys that I would trust with my 15 year old daughter, not not enough to have them spending the night with her. My daughter has never given me any reason to not trust her, but that doesn't mean that I have forgotten what it was like to be a teenager and ruled by hormones.
If your girlfriend's mom isn't smart enough to do the right thing, then you will have to be responsible enough to act like a mature person.
2006-10-08 17:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! You know it isn't normal! I thnink you have such a hugh crush on this girl, and probably visa/versa..You need to keep things in where they belong unless you are ready to be a parent and support a child until that childis 18. Is that what you are trying to accompolish.?.....What about the rest of your youth, and the fun you should be having at dances, football/baseball games, hanging out , You really need to try and keep your hormones in check, especially if the girl can't.....Hormones on both are really raging at these ages.........You be the smart one here and do the right thing.......The mother sounds like she would be happy to have you help raise her teenage daughter. Come on. think with your Brain!!!.
2006-10-08 17:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah everyone feels that way about their first girlfriend/boyfriend! And 99.9999% of the time the relationship breaks up soon after. You're both still young, still children who are developing. Soon you will grow up and mature and begin your journey into the world. I think you're WAY too young to be having overnights together - I think someone should be calling protection services on your parents!
2006-10-08 19:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mother sounds extremely irresponsible, immature and uncaring. Almost like she's just ready to get rid of her daughter under any circumstances. Just because an "adult" says it is okay, doesn't mean you shouldn't use your own judgement.
Please, whatever you do, don't be stupid and get this girl pregnant. If you have sex a condom should be worn EVERY TIME and even then, it's not 100%.
2006-10-08 17:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kristi's Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal. She is basically telling u that it is okay for u two to have sex or do whatever u should not be doing? She needs help herself. As soon as the little girl pops up pregnant she is gonna hate u.
2006-10-08 19:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by ~Just me and my stinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,not really it's sort of like her mom dosen't care about her. I mean giving her away to you when you're still young. i'm young, and my mom would NEVER let me spend the night w/my bf EVER this grl would only be 16!!!
2006-10-08 17:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by spaz buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it not normal, someone should turn both of your parents in for child endangerment and neglect.
Hope you like the awesome input.
2006-10-08 17:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋