my father dont want me have a baby he think that i am too young but i want to keep it what should i do?
2006-10-08 09:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am 17 years old
2006-10-08 10:37:18 · update #1
First of all this decision is yours and yours alone. NO ONE should pressure you one way or the other. Follow your heart and decide if having a child is the best option for you.
Second you need to consider how you will support and provide for your child??
2006-10-08 10:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old you are, but I'm guessing pretty young.
At the end of the day this is your decision. BUT, your father is a parent and knows how demanding financially and emotionally it can be. I would take his advice to heart. I do not believe in abortion but I'm sure a good, stable, happy couple out there would love to have your child as theirs. Think of everything they will be able to give her that you can't.
I am a young mother and trust me, it is EXTREMELY hard. Some days I just don't know if I'm going to make it through. It is hard at any age but the less stable your life is, the more stress and problems come with it.
Good luck.
2006-10-08 17:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kristi's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age the law may give your father and/or mother the rights to decide if you keep the baby or not. If you are really wanting to keep the baby try looking up the Child Laws of your state. You can even call your local CPS office for help, they may even ask you to take sevral test.
2006-10-08 17:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by johnjk_26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it. Don't get an abortion unless that is what YOU want to do 100 percent. Too many women regret it later on for it to be taken lightly. Talk with a school councilor or a really good friend about it- you need support.
2006-10-08 17:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you? if you are 18 or older you have the right to choose what's best for you and your baby..... you don't need your father permission....if you are under age.... talk to your doctor.... go to a family service office they can help you....
you have the right to keep your baby....even if you are under age you have rights.... your father cannot force you to do something you don't want to
2006-10-08 17:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by perinsesu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision is really up to you. If you are able to care for the child without putting any major plans of yours at risk you should probably keep it.
2006-10-08 17:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by banana_monster_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what is right for that baby, if you cant take care of it, give it up for adoption. i dont believe in abortion though
2006-10-08 16:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would keep it. i just think it dont want his baby girl growing up so fast. after awhile he will be ok with it. be strong girl it will be fine.
2006-10-08 17:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by meggiephoo42069 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should keep it, you opened your legs now you gotta deal with the consequences and your father has to except that
2006-10-08 17:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by isydnor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have someone else you can live with that will help you support this child? If you need someone to talk to, please instant message me my screen name is angels_among_us7777
2006-10-09 21:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋