2006-10-08 09:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
goes both ways, as each perceives the situation from their own angle
2006-10-08 10:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does happen in many cases, but not always. It probably works the other way just as often.
I don't blame my ex for everything. In fact, I blamed myself for a long time & she knew how to manipulate that.
I know I made mistakes, but I was faithful. She wasn't, but she made me out to be the bad guy. Many of my divorced friends, men & women alike, have had similar experiences.
2006-10-08 17:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men do, mostly if they were stuck with child support or alimony.
If he isn't paying either, then he is in denial, and expects you to believe nothing is his fault.
If we're all adults, we have learned that "other adults" have all been through not so fun times, if they have been married before.
We know in our hearts, that it takes two to tango.
Let him carry on or just tell him to shut up!!
If you care on some level for the ex, let her know you don't place all blame on their failure that he does. You never, know, you may make a good friend of her.
2006-10-08 16:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same reason ex wives blame everything on ex husbands nobody wants to take the blame
2006-10-08 16:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you were married, did he not blame everything on you then, It's called the blame game, if a person has to see the truth, it's harder. I have a sign on my door that says: Enter without knocking, Leave the same way. Try telling him this old saying. it probably will take him awhile to figure it out.
2006-10-08 17:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same reason that exwives blame ex husbands for everything. Mostly its always just wanting different things and or lack of commitment or communication.
2006-10-08 17:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because ex wives do the same thing. They are still "hurting" from the divorce and are trying to put it all into perspective. Later on after the "wounds" have all healed they won't be blaming.
2006-10-08 17:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people always have to place the blame for their mistakes on someone else.
2006-10-08 16:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they do not want to believe it could be them. It is much easier for them to blame the other person.
2006-10-08 17:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know they are guilty, so put the blame on u. Don't let him do this just kick him to the curb. curb didn't want him and sent him to the corner. Relax!
2006-10-08 16:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a way of him making himself look good and wanting to be faultless about everything.
2006-10-08 17:09:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋