2006-10-08 09:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by capri 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Go and talk to your doctor they will explain all your options to you
2006-10-08 09:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 20 and I cant imagine what i would feel like if I found out I was pregnant. But you have many options. Talk to your family and the babies father, one it is nice to include, the second you need to involve. You can decide to keep the baby, give it to a family member, let the father have it or you can give it to an adoptive family so many parents want children and cannot have them. Or if you truly cannot or will not have the child their is abortion, although I would strongly recommend that as a last resort. It could be very traumatic.
2006-10-08 11:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with most on here that you need to see an OB/GYN first.
Second, here are your options: Give birth and keep it, give birth and give it up for adoption, or have an abortion. You really need to decide at the very least if you want to give birth or not before you start stressing over anything else. Before you decide get all the facts about those options from non-judgemental and unbiased professionals. If you go to your local planned parenthood, they will give you information on all of your options without making you feel pressured into choosing any one inparticular. Any place that you go to should not try to pressure you one way or the other on your options.
Third you are going to need moral support no matter what you decide to do, so contact at least one of the following: your parents, the person who impregnanted you, or a support group for young unwed women.
good luck
2006-10-08 10:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so easy for people to say have the baby and don't worry about it.
But, you have to decide what is best for you. Please, before you make any decisions, one way or the other, remember that you are pregnant and for however long you are (either short-term or full-term), please be good to that baby. Stop drinking, smoking, start taking pre-natal vitamins, start eating heathy.
Second, ask yourself, do you want this baby? Think long and hard about this. Can you abort this baby? Can you carry the baby to full term and then give it up for adoption? Can you carry this baby to full term and keep it and support it?
Remember, carrying the baby to full term and then giving it up for adoption is a commendable thing. Yes, very difficult. But, if you have strong feelings against abortion, or cannot see yourself keeping the baby, adoption is a great way to go. So many people who would love to have a child to love.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-08 10:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by pouncermom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor soon, and be very sure you talk about everything, If you do decide to have an abortion, then please have this done as soon as you can, My daughter was told her baby had died and was sent for an abortion at just 12 weeks, she so wanted the baby, then when she had had it aborted they said it was alive that was the news she did not want to hear, then she was ill and has since been told she has pelvic inflammation and might not be able to have anymore children, she is 24 with one son, I am not trying to scare you I just want you to be very sure about what you decide to do.
Good Luck
2006-10-08 09:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Angel-Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go and make an appointment with your doctor,tell that doctor that you just found out that your pregnant,and ask what options you have.
2006-10-09 02:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Brown Eyez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can abort (not easy), give the baby to adoption (even harder) or become a Mum (extremely diffilcult if you're unsure). You need to think long and hard about this and maybe seek counselling to help you. Good luck with whatever you decide!
2006-10-08 09:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok then first thing to do is to tell ur parents and see ur docter about some problems.take it easy and be calm,dont carry heavy things and keep a healthy diet eat lots of vitamins and minerals.if u smoke stop and do not drink.
2006-10-08 09:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by mohammed m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings right now.... but i can assure if you have your baby you will feel better.... once you have that little baby in your arms.... you won't remember all doubts you have now...
things happened for one reason.... and I'm sure that baby will come to your life to make it better and much happier....
i was just one year older than you when i had my baby...and now I'm so happy my baby girl is the most beautiful and important thing in my life... she is everything to me...
2006-10-08 09:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by perinsesu 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do u mean you're unsure? Find out who's kid it is. Unless you already know. And just have the kid. Don't go for abortion. It'd be killing a little life.
2006-10-08 09:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by mcrXp!atdXtbsXfobXaddicted2music 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋