i gave her premission to and she said o i can't do that with my friends yet she did it behind my back and i found out a bout it and she acted all inocent please help
2006-10-08 09:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by =GreenDayLuvr= 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you kinda said it was ok in the first place! But she lid to you also when she said she wouldn't but did it anyway.... This is a though one! I don't see her as a friend you can trust im afraid! friends don't lie to each other!
2006-10-08 09:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Angelina 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Why bother yourself. After all you are living in an open society and everybody has the right to come and go any time one feels like. Dont you think its one of the curse of an open society. And women are the most sufferers in it. Go in the outskirts of big cities and you will find that people who are living in somewhat closed societies are better off. They live in peace. They are not in the habit of changing partners just for nothing. They stick to their families and love their wives till death.
2006-10-08 16:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she claimed it would be bad if she is, and then did this behind your back, she is clearly too weak to be upfront with you. You should ask her how much she really vaules the friendship if she can't even be upfront. Maybe, like many women, needs to learn how to be strong enough to tell the truth.
2006-10-08 16:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter just went through this same scenario - with dire consequences. Here's the short version ---- if you said it wouldn't bother you even when it did (just a little), suck it up. It doesn't matter if you found out or was told, if you aren't hung up on him then it wouldn't bother you. To be honest, it should bother your friend that she's getting your left overs. It that doesn't bother her, why should it bother you?
2006-10-08 16:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by LOLA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, she's NOT YOUR FRIEND!!!! a true friend wouldn't date an ex (even if you told her it was ok) she would also not lie or play stupid about it either!!! get rid of her..... with friends like her who need enemies?? besides, who wants a friend that wants your sloppy seconds ??
2006-10-08 16:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by ivybenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be so mad!! I could't be friends with my friend if she did thet to me, but hey tha just my take on it. I mean you do not go out with your friends x!! That is like the golden rule of girls n their friends. you just din't do it.
2006-10-08 16:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Christy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you gave her permission to and then she said no and then she did it behind your back,it's kinda bitchy but you did say she could.maybe she changed her mind.so it's both ur faults but mainly yours cuz you did say yes.up 2 u!
2006-10-08 16:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~Bubblii~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriuosly seems like you need to grow up. If you didn't want her to date him, you should have said so.
2006-10-08 16:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason.... let him be her problem now. You are done with him, right?
2006-10-08 16:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be her friend, I mean really... how long could it last.
2006-10-08 16:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋