There's times where i feel really boring. Like someone could say a whole bunch of things and i have nothing to say i just laugh and go along with what that person says. Its not that i am boring its just sometimes i have nothing to say. Is this normal?
2006-10-08 09:09:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks guys lol cuz i was on a bus ride home back to school cuz i just had a game a football game that is and these girls were like "stop being so quiet!!" and it got kinda annoying i mean not everyone talks alot they can be quiet they can be loud thats just how it is
2006-10-08 09:13:28 · update #1
This is completely normal. Happens to me all of the time. It is nice to let the other person do all the talking, it makes them feel like you are a good listener.
2006-10-08 09:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Aly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its normal. the thing about life is that we have to interact with other people. some of us are more introveted while as others tend to be more extroverted and therefore gregarious.
i was an introvert and still am somewhat. the thing is this, since we have to interact with other people, whether we want to or not, throughtout our lives, work, school, etc. one should learn to be more talkative, or speak your mind more freely. its could be important.
for example, where you're around close family or friends, you may have tons to say...because you feel more comfortable in that setting.
however in an unfamiliar setting you feel as if you're not sure what to say. its not that you didn't think of anything when that other person said "a whole bunch of things"; its just you're not sure how to react.
im sure some thoughts went through your head; but you didn't know what to say...well focus on saying anything you want. you might have to force yourself, to burgeon the conversation. take an improv comedy class
so yes, its normal not to say something. and no you are not boring. but working on speaking your mind more, whatever it is, will be good for you in the long run.
2006-10-08 16:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its very normal and all of normal people feel the same from time to time .u have to change ur life style and try new things ,make new relationsand buy new cloth this will make u feel better.
2006-10-08 16:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by moony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it so normal,people are different, there is a class of peole who just like talking, and of cause need people like you to listen. and the other class just like listening to other peoples opinions and throw in a few words here and there. but be careful at what you are laughing at . you might be laughing at yourself.
2006-10-08 16:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by seyhay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we don't believe in ourselves enough so we don't know how to just be ourselves.If you don't want to talk then don't but if you do and it doesn't or isn't out of selfishness than say it. Okay!
2006-10-08 16:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by virtue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - absolutely normal. It could be just down to tiredness.
2006-10-08 16:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by tattyhead65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its completely weird? of course its normal! u dont ALWAYS have to have something to say! sometimes peeple prefer it that way! peeple always like to have listeners, its not that ur boring.
2006-10-08 16:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means your having a quiet moment thats all, we all have them so dont worry
2006-10-08 16:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by neil d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it very normal it would get annoying to ur friends and people u know if u always had something to say and had to say it...
2006-10-08 16:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by ohdarliingletgo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U r lucky u have someone to laugh with, i don't see that boring.
2006-10-08 16:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋