I don't understand it. I always feel bad if I think I have hurt or personally offended anyone in any way.
2006-10-08 08:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Usually people who do this are unhappy with themselves. The only way they know how to make themselves feel better is by putting others down. I feel sorry for people like that feed off of hurting others. All you can do is overlook them and hope that life gets better for them. Don't stoop to their level.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-08 08:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sadism and masochism develop and why some people find these practices pleasurable remains unclear. Various current theories include childhood experiences, endorphin-based mechanisms, learned behavior, genetic dispositions, and simple conscious choice.
2006-10-08 09:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by fresh2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They hurt others because they are hurting themselves. A person who doesnt feel the need to hurt another person is usually a very together person and has a good opinion of themselves. The person who take every opportunity to hurt another has a very low opinion of themselves, so should we hate these kind of people? What do you think. I know when I come across people like that in my life...I dont take it personally...I put it into perspective and I feel quite sorry for that type of person...something horrible must have happened in their life for them to be so bitter. That is one kind of hurter.
Another kind of hurter is one who does it for kicks, the one who likes to stand out in a crowd, the one who is trying to impress his "mates". You should feel sorry for that kind of person too because he is so insecure that he will do anything to be accepted into the "in" crowd.
The beauty in all of this is that we can choose who we want to associate with, we dont have to associate with people who are nasty...we will associate with like minded people, and the people who try to hurt you are only passing acquaintances, so they dont matter in your life. Put it into perspective, brush their comments off....it is them who have the problem not you.
2006-10-08 09:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always tell my kids that people who are in pain lash out at others to make them selves feel better...to be honest I dont know why a person is delibertly evil to others....mabey they are emotionaly retarded and cant feel ....peace
2006-10-08 13:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by sltydgx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have no deceincy. If they can be real with themselves at the end of the day, then who knows what's really on their mind.
2006-10-08 09:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, particular human beings like that harm others by way of fact they are jealous or in simple terms envy that individual in a undeniable way, by way of fact they like what they have and that they like to scouse borrow it from them. some human beings like that have low self-worth and doing the variety of nasty issues makes them sense extra perfect. i understand, i don't comprehend this the two how ought to all of us do the variety of element.
2016-11-27 01:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because i think they may have low self esteem...and so to put someone else down....they get the ultimate rise out of it....it's like a rush .....ppl who are like that don't like themselves very well....so they want you to feel the pain that they feel....so they have no problem at all hurting you.
2006-10-08 09:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they hate themselves & it makes them feel better to hurt you.
I myself do NOT understand this behaviour.
2006-10-08 08:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by HiKo73 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A weird thing called Sadism....
As in S&M...it's not always in a physical way though.
They just have different ways of thinking...
2006-10-08 08:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Evil, plain and simple.
2006-10-08 09:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋