My husband lived with another woman while we were seperated last year. We have back together for about 8 months and are getting along fine. BUT she calls and hangs up, goes around his family, writes really sappy letters. We've told her to go away, but it hasn't worked. Changed the number, but she got it again. She is generally very aggravating. I want to torture her a little. Yes, I know it's mean and petty. But really getting her goat one time would make me feel better for about an hour. She's back with her husband now and living with his parent's and still pestering us. What's your best idea for making her squirm with no actual physical injury. Thanks in advance for your evil schemes.
2006-10-08 08:48:26 · 25 answers · asked by Roni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He didn't cheat on me with her, we were apart when they met. I was seeing someone else, too. She got the new number from my husband's cousin, who is a meddling pain in the butt.
2006-10-08 09:48:30 · update #1
Pretend you're into santeria or witchcraft ...act it out good and every little bad thing that happens to her will make her paranoid.
2006-10-08 09:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Deloused-In-The-Comatorium 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Revenge On Ex Husband Ideas
2016-11-04 12:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already burning her by bieng with the guy she really wants! sit back & soak it up.
If she calls & stays on the line for awhile before hanging up.....then give her a show,screw his brains out while she sits on the other side of the line brewing because its not her.
If your hell bent on revenge......you can play the mind-game & fight fire with an inferno! Start stalking & watching her,but make it obvious! let her feel how it is to be a victom! (most trouble makers & bullies feed off of you being annoyed or scared,they get a charge out of it) turn the tables by acting psycho! nobody wants anything to do with a nut-case,that'll get rid of her.....even tho your not crazy (you sound like a sweet person) sometimes you've got to go extreme.
If you've got it in you to be scandless.....then I would say burn her by sleeping with(or making it seem like you did) with her husband,now you've burned her on both ends of the candle.
If the first two ideas is'nt for you then option 3 is................F@CK with her job & get her fired! you mess with a persons money you mess with their life.
These ideas are better than replacing a $50 windshield or making her pay $100 to fix a window........these ideas are meant to scar for life.
2006-10-08 09:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio Rising 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP! If you've taken your cheatingass husband back after he shared a life and an apartment with another woman then the problem isn't her sweetie................... it's you. If your now returned with tail between legs husband isn't actively trying to make this insane reminder of his indiscretion go away --- that should tell you something. GROW UP! MOVE ON! Close the chapter of that love story gone wrong.
2006-10-08 09:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not very mature to seek revenge, just ignore her. I'm wondering if you're mature enough to be married if you're going to stoop to being so petty. Grow up, you're acting as bad a she is like a couple of pubescent middle school brats.
2006-10-08 10:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry if i'm being to blunt, or affensive, I just thought I should express my opinion to you on this matter.I'm curious, are you positive that your husband & her are completely over? The reason why i'm asking you this is because it seems odd that you had your phone number changed and she was able to get it. Just because she is back with her husband, that does not mean that the two of them are not still fooling around.And also, Just because your husband & this woman is coniving & decietful, that does not mean that you should be. If your husband truly loves you and wants to be back in your life, then he will be the one to put a stop to this. If he concidered himself man enough to be with her when the two of you were seperated, then he should concider himself man enough to get her completly out of the two of your lives! I honestly believe that he is enjoying this. The reason why I am saying this is because you are letting him see that it doesn't matter to you about what he had did in the past, you will forgive him. But it does matter about her because she was the one screwing around with him. You should always remember it takes two to tangle and if you are going to just take the blame away from him and put all of the blame on to her you are going to be very unhappy in your marriage. He did it once and believe me the way that you are building up his Ego and making him believe that he is forgiven, He will do this to you again!
I wish you the best of Luck!
Sorry again.
2006-10-08 09:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by bigred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go buy 2 dozen pairs of underwear and at late at night hang them in different place around wear she lives like at the corner bar places where she hangs out at and print her address and phone number with a lil note ( For who ever finds this a free blo w jo b will be given ) I'd even hang them where she works too. She will be Beet red and can't leave the house for days. I have done this to a cheating ex girlfriend and it made her go stir crazy with guilt.
2006-10-08 09:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by John H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kinda have to agree with Froggy on this. If it was really over between her and your husband and the 2 of you were REALLY happy together, he'd have found his own way to get rid of her. If you have an unlisted number (and i've been thru this myself by the way) there's no way for her to get it unless him or someone he knows has given it to her. Look a little closer than on yahoo for your answer to solve this one. Look in the direction of your husband.
2006-10-08 09:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her husband and let him know that his wife wont leave ur man alone show mail the sappy letters to him so that it will get there on a day he's off like on a Saturday that way he will definately see them and have it registered so that one of them has to sign for it.. hopefully it will be his signature.. when u get it back .. but make her life hell the way she's making ur life hell..
2006-10-08 09:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are pissed at the wrong person. Your husband is the bad guy here. If he tells her to back off, she will. He's enjoying the h*ll out of this whole situation. think it over, your husband cheated on you and of course you forgave him. I can almost bet he's still seeing her and screwing her.
2006-10-08 08:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-12 05:22:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋