2006-10-08 08:40:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If everything about him changes. He will not be as affectionate as he used to, he will not want to do the thngs that he used to do, won't go out like he used to and he will not be into you like he used to. He will be some what distant and will be out of touch whenever he thinks that you are busy. Tell him that you have plans, and make the set up seem real, a business class lunch with friends whatever. Then call him and let him know that you are free. See what happens. Can he meet up with you or is he busy? Will he tell you what he is doing? If not he is a cheat.
2006-10-08 08:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you think he is. Is there a reason for him to turn away from you? A relationship will always need renewal. Routine is a killer! Keep your relationship alive and interesting by detecting new ways of doing things together.
Now, listen to what and how he says anything about you and your relationship together and look into his eyes. Is he getting upset when you ask him about details of his day? Does he make a lot of overtime hours and, if yes, what compensation does he get? Look into credit card statements, etc. Talk to people that know him and ask whether he talks about his feelings. But be discreet and do not tell them what you think he is doing to you.
So - be attractive, try to spend more time with him and always keep an eye on his activities... You want to keep him, right?
2006-10-08 16:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The power of Questions...
Start talking more with your man, ask him lots of questions all the time about work and the people he works with, what he does, where he goes. Ask him if he's happy in your relationship. Ask him if he's attracted to another woman? Study his responses. If he's lying you may notice behaviour shifts in the way in which he answers things.
There's nothing wrong with straight up asking questions. If his behavior and response to things are suspicious then you've got something to go on. You don't need evidence at this point, you just need clues that point to either/or. The clues will help you in determining next steps.
Good luck. I wish you the best.
2006-10-08 15:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by divad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he give you signs that make you not trust him, then you have your answers. If he goes out of his way to PROVE he ISN'T cheating, then you'll know you are the most important one in his life. His actions will tell you more than his words. You deserve a faithful man -- don't waste time with any other kind.
2006-10-08 15:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is just the way "I" am, I would come right out and "ask" him. If he say's no, and you find out later he "is" or "has", it's on "him." I look at it this way, if a guy is cheating on "me," when I find out about it? He will never forget that he has just "screwed" himself out of "being" with me, because we will be done! Gone! No second chances, no sad little apologies, NOTHING! Because you see, I am a good person who deserves a good man, and if "he" does that to "me?" He's not a good man, and I don't want him....ever. Once a cheater asks for a "second chance? They then will ask for a 3rd chance. To "me" self respect means everything. Good luck.
2006-10-08 15:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pay attention to the little things
longer hours
doesnt pick up phone at times he used to
doesnt want to have as much sex as before
doesnt want you to look at his phone
goes to another room to pick up a phone call
also, these things are clued only if he didnt do any of them before and all of a sudden he is
in any case, everything that you do in life comes to light at some point or another, so if the guys is cheating, youll know, eventually
2006-10-08 15:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Alixa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually have different ways of being around you. They don't seem interested in sex, or they're always wanting it all of a sudden. They keep making excuses why they just don't seem to be around like they use to.
They start agruments, (because of their guilt), but it's arguments that you don't understand.
They get weird phone calls at different times than before. Does he get on the computer? Check the history.
INVESTIGATE!!
2006-10-08 15:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, there's so many ways. Does he come home smelling like Pu$$y? That's a dead give away. Look for notes, phone numbers on paper, cell phone. Does he take calls and when you ask who it was he says "no one". Does he do things he doesn't normally do?
2006-10-08 15:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by dextersadventures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any signs? Like him making excuses for not getting together? Or him not wanting to spend time with you? Him not answering the phone. Does he always say he is busy?
2006-10-08 15:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not come home at night. he will not want to talk or touch you. he will get irritated at the slightest things. He may start fighting with you about nothing at all. He may get calls on his home or cell # and when asked who it is he will make excuses. he will pick at you for your flaws, but then say you are overreacting when you defend yourself.
2006-10-08 15:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋