i have a question..ok, i found out a guy liked me like about a month ago and we were good friends. but like last week, my friendtold me he only liked me because of my boobs (his friend wouldn't lie or make up stories, i know 100% positive), and it made me feel bad. what should i do? and i just feel bad at the moment. becuz i kinda liked him too.
2006-10-08 07:59:01 · 14 answers · asked by ilovedotsx3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We came to notice a person because of his/her physical appearance then came to like that person more because of his/her character. Prove to him that you're not only attractive from the outside but also from the inside.
2006-10-08 08:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by ETHAN'S ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened me before and I just felt so self-conscious around him from then on. We're not even friends now but it's just a distant memory you'll get over him and find a nice guy who cares about you for you not your boobs!
2006-10-08 15:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Naomi N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first time he saw you and what made him attracted to you is your boobs...don't worry It is normal that physical attraction would always come first.
Still spend time with him, get to know him and let him know you it time you will feel if he only likes you 'still' for your boobs...or it changed to liking you for you.
2006-10-08 15:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by firedragon_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes friends lie, and who knows? He may have made a positive comment about your breasts, but that may not be all he is looking at! Why don't you talk to the guy? He might be attracted to many things, not just your breasts. Don't jump to conclusions- TALK TO HIM!
2006-10-08 15:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by silverstreak1717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup I get these all the time, after a while you'll learn to distinguish who just likes your boobs and who likes both your boobs and your aS$ (just kidding), but seriously ignore him, he's a shallow asshole.
2006-10-08 15:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him and find out how he really feels. Friends can often misunderstand or can be jealous and not want you to be with this guy. Trust your instincts. Most often they are right.
2006-10-08 15:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by diana c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realise he is a shallow jerk and you deserve better. Don't feel bad or stupid about liking him. Often times you can't pick who you fall for but you can pick who you get over.
2006-10-08 15:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nou cant like someone because of their boobs you like their boobs and not them so maybe he did like your boobs but it must of bin more than that for him to like YOU and not just say he liked your boobs
u get what am sayin??
well a hope this helps and he did like more than those nokers
2006-10-08 15:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Charlotte.♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should feel bad, ur being played. move on, a guy like that isn't worth being a bf. he can still b ur friend b/c then its not like hes gonna get any anyway. don't let him fool ya.
2006-10-08 15:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every1 likes someone coz of something,and then they will learn to appreciate other things about u so make him appreciate the other good things about,wat attracted u to him,its also probably one of his features like his face,sothats the thing about dating.
2006-10-08 15:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by tanyaradzwadandajena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋