he does not share his past with me
2006-10-08 07:45:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he's not comfortable with his past, and feels it's best left untold. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you however. The past is just that, the PAST! Leave it there, and move on in your marriage....that's, in the PRESENT!
2006-10-08 07:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel that the past is the past. Relationship and otherwise, they also feel that there is nothing to talk about. We all make our mistakes. He probably does not care what you did before you were with him and he feels that you should be the same. Somethings are better left alone. A man and a womens mind are very different. A man usually feels that what you did before him is none of their business, the same with you. Yes, he probably does truly love you but just does not want to dwell on the past. It is over and done, why worry about it now.
2006-10-08 14:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you if he LOVES you truly or not, there has to be more to your relationship than his past. Don't worry if he does not share it with you, maybe he has issues that he still has to resolve. What ever you do, DON'T pressure him. I have very hurtful things in my past that I still can't share with my husband, and it has NOTHING to do with him (I'm glad HE understands). Try to be supportive but most of all TRUSTING!. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-08 14:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he loves you, but maybe he's scared of sharing all his past with you, thinking that you will probably leave him or that you won't love him the same.
let him know that he can tell you anything and that you will be able to understand (after all it is in the past right?).
2006-10-08 14:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not mean that he does not love you truly..Have you shared your past with him.Do you love him truly?If so than everything is fine for you.you mean so much to him.You're a fresh breath for him,rain in a drought,a key that unlocks the door and shelter in a storm..and see that storm should not ruin your life.
2006-10-09 16:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by precede2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, him not wanting to share his past doesnt' mean he doesn't love you. There are things everyone likes to keep to themselves. However, it would be good if you guys are able to talk about everything. What's the point of marrying if you have to keep stuff secret from each other???
2006-10-08 14:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by HP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The past is the past. Unless you are being faced with 'excess baggage' from his past, then you should not worry about it. Focus on the present and don't dwell on what you have no control over.
2006-10-08 14:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't love you, why he married you??? maybe his past was very unfortunenally or make him sad??? i think you never ask about his past lar, that most important is two of you staying happily, other past is not important. you are his now lover.
every want must got past, maybe someone is unhappy. don;t let the past made you two argue.
2006-10-08 15:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by ying 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have done your home work on him prior to saying yes. And telling you his past or not is not a barometer for indicating love.
2006-10-08 14:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by beerman59401 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does. Maybe he is trying to leave old things behind and not drag something that later will trouble your relation with him. Respect what he wants to leave behind and start walking with him with what you both started when you met, nothing else.
2006-10-08 14:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by gil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋