i feel like he is always mad at me in some way and when he gets mad he tries to turn it on to me. I like him alot actually love him and i want break up with him but i i dont want to hurt him nor myself. he always talks about his past and how good it was and i dont feel good enough for him. He always talks about my imperfections and things that i feel is offensive. and im really shy toward everything. i would tell him but i dont quite know how.
2006-10-08 07:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by youngjess90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YES you should break-up with him it sounds like he wants you 2 so he doesn't look like a bad guy!! but it sounds like he doesn't want 2 be with you so i believe your not gonna hurt his feelings and if you do so what he should have treated you better and you can find someone who will! of course your gonna hurt yourself by breaking up with him but in the long run you will feel better about it and yourself because you don't need a man who looks down on you and treats you like that!! do it and start the grieving process and get it over with!!
2006-10-08 07:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by finenazfuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature. He is also selfish sounding. I would think that you would have to put up with alot of abuse from this guy for a few years until he comes around. Kick him to the curb and move on. It only hurts for awhile and his feelings matter very little in these matters. All is fair in love and war.
2006-10-08 14:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by beerman59401 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump 'em. Dude is on a serious power trip and is using anger and insults to control you. He needs to learn to let go of the past and move on. I know it is difficult to let a relationship go, but it sounds like you need to move on too. Feel the hurt of the loss of the relationship, grieve it, but recognize the beauty in it -- that you are alive and that you have loved. And then move on. Let him feel his own hurt too. You can't control that, nor should you. Maybe it is just what he needs to let go of the past and live in the present.
2006-10-08 14:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. Last thing you need is a control freak who will end up beating you someday. You are just in the beginning stages. Cut your losses and run!
2006-10-08 14:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you have to do is pay attention to the very clear signs. No one can really answer that ? for you. But i can say that if you are giving yourself to someone and they totally ignore your efforts....you should ask yourself what are you really looking for. Accept things for what they are and not what you want them to be. GOD BLESS
2006-10-08 14:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by shoonah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go it sounds like he know good. don't worry about his feelings its about yours because you have to live with you. just tell him you need your freedom . you need space. or you think are relaytionship is not going know where. get out of that shyness. following what your inside feels. you want to break up with him thats yourself telling you get out. please don;t worry about his feelings.
2006-10-08 14:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump him i mean its obvious he doesn't feel that way anymore or atleast tell him to stop pointing out your imperfecions you could become insecure from someone doing that to you
2006-10-08 14:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tanya B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
helll yeah
2006-10-08 14:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-10-08 17:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by justme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the asshole!
2006-10-08 14:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋