My due date was Oct. 5th. I'm going to the hospital today (Sunday) and the dr. said i should have my little baby tomorrow (monday)! :) I'm so excited cant wait to see my little man...
The problem is, my husband works out of town, well he came in friday, and yestarday (Saturday) he called once and started crap with me so he told me to find someone to take me to the Dr. Sunday. and that he was going back to go to work. So i hung up the phone and he has not call or anything, and here it is sunday and i go to the hospital in about 2 and 1/2 hrs. and he still hasnt called to check on me or anything. I want him to be there but i dont want any stress from him or him wanting to start stuff with me while im getting ready to have a baby. What should i do, leave him alone and let him go back to work and miss our child being born or what? I dont know what to do please help.
2006-10-08 07:22:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your baby is coming into the world tomorrow.....with , or without him being there. If he doesn't come, and be there for the birth, HE is the loser. If I were you, after the baby is born and you get back on your feet, I'd seriously consider leaving him. He is not there when you need him the most....he's only in it for the "fun". You, and your baby deserve better! Congrats on your baby!!
2006-10-08 07:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry that you have an inconsiderate, self-centered husband. Call a cab or get someone to take you, he's probably thinking your going to call and beg him to take you and see the baby being born, but don't do it he'll be walking allover you forever.If he treats you like this often then I hate to say it, but your better off being alone with your child than living with him in misery for the rest of your life. Also, if he is a real man he will put all that petty stuff aside and come see his child being born. If he does'nt make it to the hospital in time it will be his loss and make sure you remind him that he just missed out on the single most important event of his lifetime........his son being born.
2006-10-08 07:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by hiyase269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with people?
You are going to have his and your baby and he starts "crap" with you and does not call you. Please get a clue and go on without him.
Take care of your baby and don't let him grow up with an idiot for a dad (whom will forever be his biological father but hopefully not his mentor.) unless for some reason you think this is normal behavior.
I am sorry I should not take my bad mood out on you but please see the dis-functional behavior of your husband and not put your son through this pain. A dad not wanting to be at their own child's birth... UNBELIEVABLE to say the least.
Having my boy was the best thing that ever happened to me, see the miracle, hold him tight with hugs and kisses and save him from going through a painful divorce with his parents. In the end the children suffer the most.
2006-10-08 07:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by dotsycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe the audacity of your husband. Most men would be running around in excitement!!
Leave your husband be. After you have that baby ... leave him. There are a lot of men in this world, that would be more than happy to share in the wonderful experiences of bringing a new life into this world ... and see it for what it is, a miracle.
What ever possessed you to marry this "man"? (and I use that term very loosely). You deserve better hun ... leave him, and don't look back. Good luck on the birth of your little one .... and the rest of your life. ((hugs))
2006-10-08 07:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he's in all risk under pressure too, this time is complicated on the fathers in basic terms like the mummy, that would not excuse his movements, rigidity from him is the final concern you like. 2d, i could call him and tell him you are going to the wellbeing midsection and each hard artwork is diverse you need to have this infant interior hours of having there, he needs to understand that. 0.33, provide him the alternative, yet while he chooses to no longer be there, i could heavily evaluate your marriage. He created this infant and you have finished the artwork, now's his time to take accountability and be there for you and your infant. you may in easy terms do plenty, yet pass away it as much as him and spot the place you and the child stand with him. good success and that i'm sorry you're dealing with this, tremendously proper now.
2016-10-02 02:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should want to be there for the birth of your child (first I'm assuming). If the only thing that he's going to bring to the delivery is negativity then maybe he shouldn't be there. Just surround yourself with people you love (i.e. other family members, friends) and enjoy this special day. Deal with the husband later.
2006-10-08 07:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are dealing with one child already.
Talk about sibling rivalry.
Call his work and have them tell the simple SOB to go home. I really do not know of many businesses who want people who are so unstable as to leave their wife alone for this.
I do know that a normal man would regret that decision for the rest of his life. If he has no conscience then it won't bother him.
2006-10-08 07:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being selfish he should be there with you to support you having his child. He should skip work even if he could be loosing his wages. Having a child is a big huge deal. You should not have to be there by yourself without him. He was the one who helped produce that bundle of joy he should be there to help you through this time. Congratulations on your new baby boy. : )
2006-10-08 12:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him and tell him how you feel.If he does nothing then He is sol.I know it sound crazy and all,but you can't make someone do something that they don't want to do.If you do they will hold a grudge.I know that if he really cares about you and your baby than he should be there for both of you.
2006-10-08 07:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a picture of what the rest of your marriage and pending parenthood will be like. seriously think about what is best for you and your baby.
2006-10-08 07:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by deathwishpussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋