- that actually know how to treat a women right?? my heart has been broken in the most hurtful way imaginable. it makes me wander if / is there really a nice man out there with good intentions? when i see so many girls go through heartache. my faith in men is getting lower and lower. i want a man who knows how to treat a girl the right way. makes them feel truely loved. in this day and age, is there any left?? do they exist now?? and where are they??
2006-10-08 06:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by stella h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes there are. Look within yourself and see what's attracting you to not-so-good man. Could it be something in the past that started this viscious cycle? Could it be something that you're projecting? Do you treat yourself with respect and decency? People would treat you the way you treat yourself.
Love yourself more. Love yourself unconditionally and not in vainity.
Do you seek and date the not-so-decent man because there's something in them that you find attractive? Perhaps the "bad-boy" image? Only you could answer these questions. Deep inside you know you are good, loving and sweet. Express this to others and you're going to meet the man of your life.
2006-10-08 07:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by brookstone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are nice men out there and ones ready to love you and be devoted to you. But remember, the knife cuts both ways.
Plenty of really nice, genuine and even good looking guys have had their hearts trampled on too. Try looking for them in the bookstore coffee shop or in the fruits and vegetable section at the supermarket. That way you will probably meet smart and healthy men. And don't be fooled by the sensitive ones. They can be sweet and caring but wild when you need them to be. You'll find him and when you do, don't let him go.
Good luck.
2006-10-08 07:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do exist. However, they do seem to either be hard to find, in short supply, or both. My theory is that many men have been raised wrong and taught the wrong things as far as how to treat women are concerned, and have had terrible role models. It's been said that the good ones are married, dead or gay. That doesn't have to be the case. There are good single men out there, just have patience. I know that's easier said than done, but God is a good God, and He will supply each and every one of your needs.
2006-10-08 07:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are! yes they exist now. they are hidden behind walls they have put up themselves. Have faith in yourself and the men will seek you out. nothing is more attractive that a confident woman that will not put up with any crapp. just remember women feel and most men don't, if you try or want him to feel you'll fail....that only comes after he is comfortable with you and that could be a while.
2006-10-08 06:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by sixties man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by vaibahv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few, but they are out there. When you start dating a guy, see how he treats his mother. Not just when your there. But when he thinks no one is around. Chances are that is how he will treat you!
2006-10-08 06:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look to the Church for good men. If they follow a moral code then you will know they have good intentions.
2006-10-08 06:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by sdh22892 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they exist. dont give up. if you go to church, try church functions. volunteer. take up a new hobby. face to face impressions are the best. steer away from internet dating if you can. confidence excudes emotional security and men like that. learn from the bad apples and be bold. go for what you want. love yourself and others will love you back.
2006-10-08 07:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by deathwishpussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few good men...!
Look for them in different spots than usually. They may not be fancy or attractive at most, but their inner universe is beautiful!
Wishing you best....!
Ciao......John-John.
2006-10-09 09:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are all around you
just you dont see them
you maybe think they are jerks or wimps etc
they are the ones thinking are there no genuine girls out there
they have been hurt by cheating partners too
it isnt all one way
2006-10-08 06:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋