My bf of 2yrs. breaks up with me last night after our homecomin dance without any explanation.
He calls me 3 times the next mornin tellin me its cause hes tired of seein me unhappy, that he still loves me, & that he wants to be friends.
I tell him that he dont love me if he can just break up with me like that & that I cant just be friends with him cause that will just be harder to get over the fact were not together.
I had to tell my parents last night cause they saw how upset I was & that I was cryin. They think that if its that easy for him to break up with me for something that aint even like he thinks, then I shouldnt get back with him if he wants too.
Well he calls again tellin me, that he made a mistake, & that he still loves me & wants to be with me if Im happy with him.
I dont know what to do now?
I love him to death, & im heartbroken that he can just do that, but should I get back with him after that?
2006-10-08 06:43:15 · 8 answers · asked by [Pro♥Mom] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he's pretty screwed up in the head. You don't need that crap and you deserve someone better. Count your blessings that he showed you his true colors and go find someone better.
2006-10-08 06:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Writer of Truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. For what u wrote, it seems like that he doesn't treat you like a lady. Break up whenever he feels like it and hook up back when he wants it. You are not a toy or an object. You are a human that has feelings. What about if he does that again in the futur? If u wre married with him, it would be even frustrating.
2006-10-08 13:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to take things so hard. That is part of the reason he broke up with you. If you can find happiness within yourself that go for it and try to get back together with him.
2006-10-08 13:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by sdh22892 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you once, chances are he'll do it again and if he said he's tired of seeing you, that's not some mistake. That's way bigger than a mistake. That's real harsh.
So I think that you shouldn't gat back with him.
2006-10-08 13:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it space say 15 days
2006-10-08 13:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. He obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings. leave things the way they are right now. you're prbably better offf.
2006-10-08 13:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by coolio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him 1 more chance
2006-10-08 13:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he broke up with you in the first place
2006-10-08 13:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by puppydogname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋