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im 22 single mum of a 3 year old and fill will never marry or have another relation ship

2006-10-08 06:30:02 · 21 answers · asked by loopy lass 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Your 'fear' and/ or negativity probably stems from the fact that you are a single mum and possibly have lost confidence in the male population due to the way the father of your child has treated you. Don't despair, be happy that you have been given the opportunity to experience motherhood and concentrate on that for the time being. Your time will come when you are not looking and expecting it to happen. You are wanting things now, and it just doesn't happen like that in life. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you'll find 'the one'.

2006-10-09 10:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by ribena 4 · 0 0

dont give up hope just yet. You are still young. Of course you will have a relationship. Maybe many. It all depends on you. Do you get out often. Meet people? Widen your circle of friends. Single nights down the pub, blind dates. I know if your shy it can be nerve racking but making new friends is great. My sister is 23, single mum to a 1 year old. She is enjoyng single life, having no-one to answer to. She is giving the relationship side rest but when she decides to she will get out there and the rest will come. You will meet someone. Good luck

2006-10-08 06:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0 0

Don't be daft! You're 22 for goodness sake! Most people don't meet anyone significant until their late 20's or early 30's. You've had to grow up very fast but have a beautiful baby to show for it. Be grateful for that and enjoy life!

2006-10-08 06:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by peeve 3 · 0 0

You're still young. Nobody will tell you, "no, u never will"
As for marriage,It may or may not happen. These days women are getting married later and later.
Like the post above says, it happens when u least expect it. When you stop looking for it it usually comes knocking on your day.

2006-10-08 06:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Aidge 3 · 0 0

Not if you read and write to the same ability of a crack whore- no. I suggest you go to LEARN DIRECT- they are really good at sorting out hopeless cases like you. Would any-one want to marry you? No- you should have been married before you had the child, think first and open your legs later sister.

2006-10-08 07:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by TotalBitch 3 · 0 0

You are very young. Use your time on your child and on educating yourself and having a good job. The right guy will come along then. But if marriage is your only wish - you might wait for ever

2006-10-08 06:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by KirstenP 4 · 0 0

As you are only 22, you have all the time in the world, Promise me you won't just jump in with both feet, you have to be sure he is right for you and your Daughter, take care, good luck,xxx.

2006-10-08 07:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by staff, 2 · 0 0

You're 22 not 102. What's the hurry.

2006-10-08 06:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jen G 6 · 2 0

You need to do something constructive: you should try to find a class or sports activity and go to it once a week.

I meet many people through tennis; but you might prefer some thing else.

2006-10-08 09:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe you should plan one date night a month, just to keep in circulation. Just don't bring your dates home. If something gets serious you can have your boyfriend meet you child somewhere other than home. No sense in confusing your child with multiple men visiting your home.

2006-10-08 06:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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