Life makes since now i know im a g0y?

Question

thank god are any of you out there g0ys.

Answer 1

I am g0y welcome my brother feel free to contact me for my email address.

Goldwing I am sorry you feel that way because I do respect you. I do not think g0y is better than gay we are just different. I am sorry you feel the need to denigrate us like this.

Answer 2

I am really trying to understand this whole g0y thing. Once I tried to argue, just to prove my point, and I was called a hater. But I cant help it, I just see people in denial of their sexuality. If this makes you really and honestly feel better then what can I say...go for it...but I really see a mask here.
And I am being so sure, because I would consider my self a g0y, if I knew what it was, some years ago. When we come into terms with our sexuality it is always difficult. We always start with the mentality of being afraid of the gay scene and having all these vultures waiting for the shy and unconfortable guy to appear and then they all jump on him. I am still scared of the gay scene to be honest. I really cant follow it, and everytime I go to a gay bar/club I am more scared than a straight guy would be. There are some people that make me feel ashamed on their behalf...the gay people who go to shaunas and only have orgies and no meaning of personal/love life. But still...I am gay...What is gay in the end of the day? g0ys have a "stigma" for it, but it is just an opinion and actually it is what straight bigots say most of the time....it really doesnt give us a reason to come up with a different label on sexuality.
And so far, no one has EVER given a solid and logical arguement to make me say: OK this makes sense I will shut up now, be what you want to be who am I to judge.
You are a fine example....you are scared, not quite sure of what you want and suddenly you found a resort that is just a word..no lifestyle or anything that you wont find in the gay scene. I know people who dont practice anal sex, I know dozens of people who dont do the feminine ones, I know dozens of people who love their buddies and would protect them...you have the bears doing this already...but they are still gay.
Anyway...whatever floats your boat better!

Answer 3

I do have to say Goldwing hits it right on the point...I may not be g0y but I know if you like looking at guys and feel the need to hold them kiss them etc.......... you are gay or bi NOT g0y i have read up a little on g0y and you maybe different but you still gay but you have the right and freedom to believe what ever you want to.

Answer 4

I love all my gay brothers and sisters, and I mean NO disrespect at all. everyone should come out only when they are comfortable with who they are....I would never suggest anyone come out before they are ready to. but, are you not just in denial? I really don't understand this "g0y" label... can you enlighten some of us a little bit here? isn't this just another way of saying you're on the "down low" and aren't admitting to who you really are?

Answer 5

Sad.
There is no such thing as g0y when referring to homosexuality.
That little group is nothing but a made-up set of stereotypes, denial, and separatists who do little to help in the struggle toward actual human rights recognition.
If that's what you choose(and yes that IS a choice, unlike your sexual preference) I pity you.

Answer 6

This Goy stuff is a recent invention to mask denial of being real. I can understand where and why you are in the place you are at. But, I see trouble down the road for you if you do not come to terms with your true self, whatever that may be. And, in reality, if you are not true to yourself, you cannot be true to anything in life. I suggest weeding out the real from the invented as soon as possible. You have NO friends who are capable of help with this journey. Pick up a Gay rag or paper, look for a counceler who is experienced in asking the right quesitons, and perhaps you can start to have a true understanding of what you are going through. You could well be Straight with a curiostiy, you could be Gay in denial, or whatever...it doesn't really matter..but it does matter that you NOT lie to yourself, NOT give yourself made-up titles to ease your doubts. The term, Goy, is a cop out being used by many confused guys today. The term, Goy, is being used as placing the user on a "higher" plane than his Gay brothers...The idea that Goy is better than Gay is troublesome to me. This is not going to help in the long run. I wish you the best in whatever you find. Good luck