Okay so there is this girl in my Creative Writing class and I thought she was sort of an outcast so I would say hi to her everyday and kinda treat her nice. I didn't really think anything of it until she started following me and my friends around at lunch, and coming to my house when I wasn't home, she would even call me. Sometimes she will do my homework and give me money too. It is really starting to bug me but I have no idea how to let her down easy. What should I do? and don't say nothing because my friends are starting to get annoyed also. SHE DRIVES US NUTS!
2006-10-08 05:51:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I HAVE LIKE THE SAME PROBLEM! AND THE GIRL IM DEALING WITH IS IN NEARLY ALL OF MY CLASSES! so anyways, just tell her that everyone need privacy, or start hanging around with your friends, talking, sharing life lessons, laughing, and when she comes get serious, and talk about school or something. shell eventually get the point that you are just not interested in forming a friendship with her. or just BE HONEST with her,
peace out, Flippy
2006-10-08 06:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by I'mhavingagoodtime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships come in all shapes, sizes and levels of intensity.
Some friends you play soccer with and some you only see at school and some you do homework with and some you can talk to about absolutely anything. Figure out what kind of friend each person is and don't expect them to be some other kind. And yeah the girl who was your best friend for years will suddenly become scarce when she gets a boy friend. That's just the way it works. Probably the best thing you can do is have enough friends so that you won't be devastated when one goes missing or lets you down.
2006-10-08 12:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by babs1025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have any friends? maybe she looks up to you.. i had the same problem. Would you mind her calling and dropping by once in a while? If you dont mind tell her that you want to be assosiates but she can still call or come over when she needs a friend to lean on.. ya know?
2006-10-08 12:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be quite frank with you, you have not been very nice to her at all. you could have left it at just hi in class, but you let it go to another level by accepting her money and her to do your homework. you used her and now its not convinient for you to have her around when you dont need her. your should feel greatful that she is willing to be your friend. instead of "letting her down easy" you should be considering how to apologize to her for using her and leading her on.
2006-10-08 12:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to tell her outright that she is annoying you with her behavior. There is no easy way of doing it. The longer you wait, the worse it will likely get.
2006-10-08 12:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop saying hi to her everyday. and just be honest or tell her that ur friends are starting to get scared to the way u r stalking them
2006-10-08 12:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try ignoring her. If that does not work, then you will have to sit down and talk with her. This can be a sign of obsession as well.
2006-10-08 12:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she needs to turn it down a bit. tell her that you can do ur won hw and to not go to ur house when ur not home b/c its not right. just tell her that she is being a bit too clingy GOOD LUCK
2006-10-08 12:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop following you and get her new friends!!
2006-10-08 13:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Luv_2_Cheer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you dont like her and say can you leave us alone cause you are driving us nuts and none of us like you
2006-10-08 12:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋