I've been in a uncommitted relationship for the past 10 months. I knew that he wasn't mine because their wasn't a commitment, but I got caught up, and wanted to make him mine. He wasn't ready for this though, so we continued our friendship until I got hurt. I catered to him like he was my man, when all along their was several other girls. He went from calling me 24/7 to not calling at all. I want to let him know how he hurt me. Is this a good idea or should I just let it go?
2006-10-08 05:36:17 · 15 answers · asked by Charlies_Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let it go, if you call or tell him that he hurt you, you just going to keep that open book open.close the chapter and go on with your life..and next time be careful.Take it as a learning experience.
2006-10-08 05:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go. You telling him how he hurt you will do nothing but feed his ego and give him gossip to spread on you. You entered that relationship knowing it was to be an uncommitted one. You can't blame him for keeping it uncommitted. It isn't like he led you on and told you he loved you all the time. It was an uncommitted relationship. Get over it and move onto the next. Just make sure you make it more clear what you want from a guy before you get that involved.
2006-10-08 12:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He did you a favor. He is not the one for you. Avoid trying to cater to guys or anyone that doesn't care how you feel. You deserved more respect. No matter what kind of relationship your in, it takes two to make a relationship work. Keep this in mind. So, move on to people that actually cares for you. You never know someone good might be waiting for you, especially the one you least expected from. Be strong at all times, when it comes to your heart being broken.
2006-10-08 13:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Candie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i know how your feeling. i've just finished a three year relationship to my ex-fiance. we have a baby together. he just left without saying a word. my heart is broken and im so hurt. i know i loved him more than he did me if he did love me.
but the thing is we just have to realise they aren't worth it. we commit and make so much effort and they, well, they just think and care for themselves.
at the end of the day he is the one who can't see what a good thing he had going on with you.
as i tell myself its his loss. he is the one who is an idiot.
the thing with the majority of men is they can't just stick to one woman, they can't be faithful and they have liars syndrome.
i suggest go shopping with the girls, buy some great clothes and either go out and dance the night away or have a girly night in and pamper yourself. you'll feel so much better afterwards.
and i know the feeling of your love towards him will still be there, try not to think about him and in time when your ready and over him you'll find a good man who'll treat you right, like a princess.
we gotta stay strong girlfriend.
i feel like a mess but i still have hope and faith.
best wishes honey xxx
2006-10-08 12:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by stella h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-08 12:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let the whole situation go. He is using all of you girls for his own selfishness. You have to be strong enough to stop letting him do this to you. Find a real man who will treat you right.
2006-10-08 12:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, you explain explicitly that your relationship was an uncommitted one. It's you who has been unable to control herself..he's not to blamed for this. Neither you of course..nothing to be done
2006-10-08 12:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should drop him completely. Having him in your life is just going to give you too much pain. Stop meeting him or calling him until you've moved on. Try to get out more, meet new people, i'm there's someone out there better for you... :)
2006-10-08 12:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please just take this relationship as a leson and live and move on find some one that really will loves and cares for who you are .if you see this problem with your relationship then it is time to move on hold your head up high and move on show this person youre bigger then they are in the long run they will see what they missed out on
2006-10-08 12:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by bridget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to see u broken hearted
but when a man cant appreciate u and ur love to him
then he is not worth ur love
hope u sleep well at night
peace!!
2006-10-08 12:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋