I'm worried about my boy which I think having the puberty transmission. He body reaction is changing and he stop discuss with me. He always in his room and may be start watching sex movie. Will this kind of attitude just temporary or forever. This is my 1st experience with teenager.
2006-10-08 05:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
put him in sports, or anything he enjoys to do, but the boy needs extra curricular activities, to make friends and to feel like what he's going through is normal. The boy is 14, of course he's going to do his thing, but try giving him a little freedom, invite his friends to YOUR house for dinner or to watch the hockey game, drive him to his friends house or to a party every once in a while. He's growing up and he's going to want to do want other young adults want to do too. Don't be scared and try to be a parent, try to be his friend and meet him in the middle.
2006-10-08 05:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is there a father in the home? Or a significant other adult male? Of course he doesn't discuss this time of his life with his mother. He's in his room doing whatever teen boys do when the hormones are shifting his interests and his ability to concentrate on anything but "it" Boys will take every opportunity to watch sex movies and they will be successful because of cable and the internet. Your boy has already seen the full monty of porno, no doubt - at another kid's home or another adult and their kid's home. It is so common today that many seven year olds have seen it all. That's why parents need to start discussing the birds and bees with children when they start first grade so that it is all just normal stuff. Boys without involved fathers - who aren't themselves too embarrassed to tell Johnny about his thing and what he can do with it now - are at risk of becoming recluse about sex and that is not good. Get a relative or a neighbor he and you trust and have some man let him know how ordinary this sex thing is and acknowledge it if he has seen the filth of porno. Then, mom, don't intrude on his "man" thing. And stop worrying.
2006-10-08 15:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is having a transmission, let me know what TV show he is transmitting now. I may want to watch it! BTW .. don't you as the parent have enough control to not let your boy watch "sex movies" .. I think as the parent you can knock on his door and go in and see what's up. Sounds like he has the run of the house .. you have responsibilities to him .. not just make sure he does what he wants all the time. Whether he is going through a change in life or not. You are the parent. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-08 12:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your son is 14, he's been masturbating in his room since he was 11. It's perfectly normal and healthy. It's also perfectly normal for him to feel uncomfortable discussing it with you. If there is an older male role model in his life, ask that person to talk with him and answer any questions he may have. I'm not a boy, but I know I'd be mortified if my mom approached me about it.
2006-10-08 14:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one...it's not right to post questions concering your son's personal issues...how do you think your son would feel if read this? two....it's a normal thing. Didn't you experiment when you went through puberty? Buy a parenting book...some things should remain private.
2006-10-08 12:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Everyone goes thru puberty, its only a phase. This is normal.
2006-10-08 12:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO. It took me a while to figure this one out. I think you mean "transition". I was about to suggest you tell him to shift gears lol.
2006-10-08 14:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by JimWV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It willl go away eventually give it time
2006-10-08 12:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋