2006-10-08 05:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by nkcrowder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just go out and find a guy that likes you first, once you know he's truly interested let him know about the kid(s).
If he's really serious he'll stay with you.
But don't hide things, if he asks, tell him, just don't bring it up straight away yourself.
It's never put me off that a woman I'm going to be in a relationship with has kids - it's the woman thats most important.
2006-10-08 05:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are dating sites on line that cater to single parents.You can meet other single parents or just singles that enjoy kids.Just google or ask.com. I have been on a few sites myself. I am a single mom and find that the dating scene can be a challenge and exciting at the same time. I have met some interesting men. At first I make more phone contact(cell) until I feel comfortable.No man gets my home number(there are to may ways to get an address) When I feel comfortable then we plan a meeting in a public place. I have to be careful I have myself and my kids safety to think about you can meet some real nut cases.Please dont make the mistake of bringing any of the men your dating around your kids at all. When you see things going in the right direction(no drama) then introduce this man to your kids.You dont want the kids to get the wrong impression or meet the wrong man.Good Luck a good man is hard to find but they are all around us.Also remember to look cute at all times even if just going to the local store you never know who you might meet.
2006-10-08 05:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would be more helpful to know your age, but I guess if you are a mom, this will be the same answer I would give anyway..I am nearly 30 and have a 6 and an 8 year old..I have been divorced for nearly 2 years and I was always afraid to be alone and even stayed in the abusive marriage for 5 years out of fear of not being able to find a "good man" who would love me AND my girls...being afraid to put my children through anything else that was unecessary, I just steered clear of men..I am now engaged to a man whose daughter passed away at 7 months old and I have had a hysterectomy..(he has no other kids)..he is a wonderful man and treats my girls better than their own father..my point is...take time to be the BEST parent you can be..any man worthy of being in your life and your kids' lives will find you..they will seek you out based on your ability as a great mom..it may take a bit, but wouldn't you rather take a while to get a great one and having it last forever? I know it is hard and I know you are going to date, just be real careful on who you allow your kids to get close to..I hope this helped...Good luck to you and yours!
2006-10-08 05:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by heandI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a touchy one. Depending on your age this can be different. Someone in their 30's or older is not going to mind. Go to church or join groups. Just depends on what you are looking for. Just remember guys are all about getting sex. Give it up too soon and they are going to leave. Wait too long and they will leave. I would say when you find someone you are interested in take some walks and see if the feelings are there meet on a regular basis and dont introduce the kids for a while but be honest about having kids. There really is not much difference between dating single mom and one that isnt a mom.
2006-10-08 05:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by laencm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man with a child. I'm a parent myself and I know it is hard. It is hard to find a person that understands that your child and their well being comes first. Then there's the factor of someone not accepting the fact that someone else has made that intimate connection with you. You will always have feelings for someone when you have a child with them no matter how much you might dislike/hate them. I think in the dating scene when someone dates someone with a child and does not have one themselves, they feel that "that ex of theirs will always be there, connected somehow". Well guess what, they will because they ARE the other half of my child. My suggestion is to try to meet men with kids.
P.S. Keep your kid(s) out of the scene for a while. Don't let that person close to them until you are for sure they are the one
Good Luck
2006-10-08 05:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "MOM" issue can throw most men off from relationships, as some don't want a "ready made" family. Any man who gets involved with yoou MUST understand that you come with a family. He must be able and willing to involve that family in your relationship as must you. The kid(s) come first, but you MUST find time for yourselves. Finding someone is not easy. The best resources are friends and family.
2006-10-08 05:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't go out looking for a man or a relationship. Cause when you go out looking you gone fine something you ain't gonna like, trust. What you do is sit back and be patient and let that man find you. Good things come to those who wait and please believe you are worth waiting for. There are plenty of guys out here that are willing to love you and your children. Just lay back in the gap for a while, it'll happen for you.
2006-10-08 05:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by missmozee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be completely honest it is like finding a needle in a haystack ... sometimes it may take a chance meeting at a park, someone you know could hook you up with someone that they know...but try nOT to meet anyone off the Internet that is like a last resort, and just take your time and spend time with your child and you may find that by not looking the right one may come along...but yes there are guys out there that will date single moms...hence the phrase MILF.
2006-10-08 05:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by dragoness131399 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is a register for such, but most men are open to relationships with children involved these days.
You will just have to take your chances through normal channels, meet someone, then tell them about your child/children.
There are lots of online dating services these days, try one of them, but make sure you have done your ground work before dating.
2006-10-08 05:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very easy, there are a few of us out there that would love to find a good single mom with kids, but we also don't hang out in the bars.
2006-10-08 05:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋