i am SOO homesick right now...I just can't stand being away from my home (Japan). all i can think about is my gf, family, friends, and all the great memories. I need to be there now!! I just can't wait...it is too much!! Do you have any advice?
Thank you~
2006-10-08 04:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Japan_is_home 5 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Japan
Talk to your girlfriend....Eat, drink, and breathe Japan.
Eat Udon and Sashimi. Drink Ocha. watch tv and movies in Japanese. Plan your vacation in December. Read books about Japan.
2006-10-09 02:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You obviously can't go back right now, so make a plan to go back sometime in the future--when you finish school, when you have a vacation, or something.
In the meantime, find something you enjoy in your current location. It doesn't matter whether it's video games, biking, watching movies, going to the mountains or whatever.
Usually, when you feel homesick, it's because you're bored and cut off from people. The best thing you can do is find something to do and find some way to meet people, whether it's online or offline.
2006-10-09 00:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Taro Shinsei 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, you're in the wrong place right now. I'm telling you go back! Or either make the most of where you are if that's impossible. If you don't have much friends where you are now join clubs even if you don't like the sound of them try it out you never know. Keep in regular contact with your loved ones and just get out there... things won't improve if you're just mopping around.
2006-10-08 12:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by saibhe79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's not impossible to go there right now, I'd get in the first plane and pay them a visit... If there's difficulties in achieving that, I guess that some long phone calls would do you some good... Anyway, I understand you perfectly... Good luck!
2006-10-08 12:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by mish_pl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, hang in there. Write lots of letters, e-mails, etc... And, maybe it'll help to write in a diary or something. Get your thoughts down on paper and maybe that'll help you get the homesickness out of your system. Good luck!! ;)
2006-10-09 07:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by sprint501 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your japanese friends, gf, or your friends who love Japan. Don't worry, soon you're going to Japan and you're going to see your gf. You'll also find out about the surprise. you're very lucky to go to Japan. Mata ne!
2006-10-08 11:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by GT 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look, i went for a week on my own and stayed in france with a totally wierd family. i lived with them and the grandma didnt like me! i know its hard, but you are obvioulsy away for a purpose. i am sure ur family will understand, but i doubt they are totally dying without you, i am not being mean, and i understand how hard it is, but you are your own person and i think that rocks!!!
2006-10-08 12:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch by any means that is safe (privacy) but while your here hang in there,and remember that you will go back home, soon.
2006-10-08 12:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by joe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋