There's this guy in my class...who i rellay like but he even doesn't kown i'm there.So one day i dorped books on him so he can see me,then he said if we would go to the school dance with me.So when i got there i saw him and my best friend !!! :O ... She told me to still be friends with her, even if she stole my crush.She siad she will tell that guy, that i like him.So then at the park i saw her telling the guy about me,but then they kissed ...can you belive that my best friend stole my crush......Then one day my friend had anothe crush on some cute guy .Then i took her crush away form her,cause she stole my crush i stoled her crush..Then she got rellay mad at me,she said i never speak to her but i do because she cares about me, because the frist guy who i had a crush on was, way older then me and he smoked.I didn't kown that's why i stole her crush.. :( How do i get my best friend back
2006-10-08 04:37:26 · 24 answers · asked by barkha_hk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you need to decide what interests you more first: a guy or a friend.
If a friend is what you want to choose then you have made a wise decision.
After that the best way to achieve your aim is by talking to her.
I am sure she is also sorry about what she had done but do not be rude to her. You know you have done something that you should not have; let her know this. She will understand her mistake by understanding yours.
Say sorry, apologise..
Remember guys are many but friends only few. true friends are even rarer.
Don't lose one because of your ego. For once be honest.
2006-10-08 22:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul Ghose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it great to be young and free! If you want your friend, take care of the friendship first. It doesn't sound as if either of you really have a problem getting a boyfriend,but if you care for your friend, taking each others "crushes" is a "no no". I am sure that if you are best friends that you are going to have the same taste's,with lots of things, but guys can really cause hard feelings between the two of you. You can "agree to disagree" and take care of your friendship. You don't want to lose the trust that you and your friend have developed, because once the trust is gone, it's gone. There isn't a friendship without trust, don't you agree.
2006-10-08 04:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem to. My best friend stole my crush from me. I didn't talk to her for almost 2 months. They got engaged but didn't last. But we made an agreement where if we like the guy, we won't date them. Well before I met this guy, she met this guy, but he liked me. I turned him down when he asked me out because I put my best friend first. But she didn't. We talked for a couple months, but we started fighting and now we aren't friends anymore.
My situation is probably a little bit different. But it's still a little like yours. I just didn't talk to her. She was going crazy without talking to me and tried to everyday. And eventually I just forgave her. I think the only reason why I didn't is because I didn't want to be a third wheel.
I don't know
2006-10-08 04:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very funny that best friends do something like to each other.Anyways let the past be buried and start a new phase of your friendship again by talking out the things with each other.
2006-10-08 22:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that i can tell you, and this is coming from experience, is to just let time tell...if she stole your crush in the first place and knew that he was your crush then she was no friend to you at all...friends dont do that to friends...and if she really wants to be your friend then she will come around and apologize to you for what she has done; then and only then should you apologize to her and things can go from there.
2006-10-08 04:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by dragoness131399 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain that you made a mistake and tell her exactly what happened. If you can, talk to this her crus hand see if he can help. He might be able to get you guys to be friends and the two of them partners and you'll all live appily ever after.
2006-10-08 04:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think somethings in life , can't be changed.. but wht ever happend in ur friend life was totally disgrace..
i dont know where in ur whole story , i thought that u were good friends,, but wht ever the only way is to raise ur hand for her and give her a chance, if she is feeling the same she wil lcome back.. good luck!
2006-10-08 04:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by styleguru_1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
barkha, it is very difficult 2 express one's feeling by conversation.so,u explain ur frd vat had happened in a letter vich will definitly impress and convience her.do this 1st,donot delay.remember-FRIENDSHIP IS A BEAUTIFULL FLOWER IN THE GARDEN OF LIFE.all the very best.reply me , the best result.
2006-10-08 06:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by megha n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl answer back your friend that you were heavily under impression of Aesop' fables and you applied "Tit for TaT". Whenever some1 asks the reason 4 reading Aesop's fables, pl take my name.
2006-10-08 04:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling u had when u saw ur best friend wid ur 1st crush was very normal.....wat u did is just a natural human behavior......so,don't blame yourself or your friend for wat happened coz u said she was just helpin u out.
Try sorting it out wid ur friend.......tell her wat all u felt,wat all u went through,try making her understand and if she really is a true friend.........she will understand u and u 2 will get back together..........it may take some time but still,u hv 2 try..............bEst Of lUck!!!!!!!!
2006-10-08 05:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Yasheen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋