I have a friend who has had a rough time finding guys she is nice very pretty and sweet. She is also shy and naive but her first bf was a complete *** manipulating her and he used her for sex got her pregnant and dumped her. She went through a terrible miscarriage and then jumped from guy to guy not having sex but seemed to be looking for emotional compensation. Most of the guys also seemed to have the same personality as the first ex. bf. She is also really smart i dont get it she gets straight A's.These guys also were all bad boys and not from nice areas. She asked my friend mariah and i for help finding a decent guy but its hard because she only talks to 4 people . Should we help her?
2006-10-08 04:35:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am not sure what she wants? she became really anti-social at one point so is their a way we can help her by just getting her out of the house she seems so misreable. I want to help but am not sure how?any ideas?
2006-10-08 04:37:52 · update #1
She seems to just attract bad guys she also is a bit submissive.
2006-10-08 04:39:13 · update #2
an intervention is not for dating, only for ppl with problems with drugs/drinking/smoking and stuff like that. you need to have a group meeting with family and friends but not an intervention.
2006-10-08 04:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer particular why you used the note 'pal' in the question. there is not any longer some thing about what you defined that sounds like he's a pal. He sounds like he needs some intense psychological help. Barring that, next time he lays a hand on you to strangle you (that's a particularly intense note there... i wish you're using it wisely), call the police. that's an attempt to kill. first challenge you should do or not that's particular you're not in any respect on my own with him, ideally not in any respect see him again. His 'confusing existence' isn't any excuse for what he's doing.
2016-12-04 10:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sure does seem to be attracted to bad guys...where is she looking for them? If it's bars or parties, then that may have something to do with it. Too little information to really help.
2006-10-08 04:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get into professional counsling.She sounds like she plays the victim over and over.
2006-10-08 04:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋