my sons is complained of speaking in the class room continously how to rectify he is intelligent?

Answer 1

Sooner hopefully someone that he fully respects will tell him that there are times when he should not talk because it is disruptive to others that are not interested!

Answer 2

He has to be made to realize that everything he talks about interests him, but does not interest everybody else except those who share the same interests. If he gets long winded, then everyone is thinking how to escape without hurting your son's feelings. Then it gets so they avoid him altogether. Smart people have a hard time fitting in. I find that most people don't have a clue, so a smart person is way above them. People don't like that and start calling a smart person a know-it-all or some such denigrating remark. So the smart person learns to cut it way back. With a football crowd you talk football. With a conspiracy crowd, you talk politics. With a religious crowd, you talk philosophy. People want you to agree with them. If you don't, then they don't want you to be with them. Such is life. You make the best of it. I remember some gal telling me there was no such thing as objective reality. I used the physical world around us to very well prove objective reality. She had no answer and promptly left the table. I am constantly amazed at the shallowness of people's thinking. In the end one has to realize that very few things we say are really important. Your son will learn this on his own. A few hurt feelings are to be expected on his big learning path. The main thing is to keep a good attitude of humility. Humility is nothing more or less that being honest with yourself. Arrogance is self deceit. That is, arrogance is me lying to myself.
Humble people don't embarrass others nor put them down. Best that your son focus his smarts on grades and a career that makes him boatloads of money so he can take care of his parents in style. Wink.

Answer 3

There are several options here....and believe it or not there are medical problems that can cause this and it is not always the parents fault. But of course the parents are always the ones who are blamed. I have to wonder if the people writing the previous answers even have children. They are the worst offenders to always blame the parents or the child's upbringing. You may want to seek your physician's advice because I am not one. But I am a parent of three children, all with some form of learning disabilities. I would begin by searching the internet and finding the symptoms of ADD, ADHD. These are, most of the time, very bright kids who may or may not have hyperactivity. They are very impulsive ie. speaking out of turn, trouble waiting their turn in activites, difficulty concentrating, very messy handwritiing ect. They are not quite sure what is appropriate at times, but even if they are aware it is extremely difficult for them to control themselves. It can be something as simple as food allergies. It is unbelievable what food allergies can do to children and their cognitive thinking, behavior, sleep habits, disposition and more.

Here is an excerpt from an informational website.

A child with ADHD often shows some of the following:

trouble paying attention
inattention to details and makes careless mistakes
easily distracted
loses school supplies, forgets to turn in homework
trouble finishing class work and homework
trouble listening
trouble following multiple adult commands
blurts out answers
impatience
fidgets or squirms
leaves seat and runs about or climbs excessively
seems "on the go"
talks too much and has difficulty playing quietly
interrupts or intrudes on others

I hope this will help give you some food for thought. I am sorry and empathetic for what you are dealing with. I am a very strong disciplinarian and my children are in a private Christian school. They know how to behave, have manners out of this world and are a total blessing....and very bright if I do say so myself HA! But one day I forgot their medicine and my 8 year old ADHD, Asberger's Syndrome son felt their was nothing wrong with lying down on the classroom floor and rolling to the pencil sharpener. His teacher told me about it and she said boy he was not himself all day. I then remembered that I had forgotten his meds, which was the first time in a year. It was absolutely not because his parent's did not do the right things at home. The child has two major disabilities and is on the A honor roll most all the time. He did not know that this was inappropriate. Children with Asberger's (under the Autism umbrella) do not know what is or is not appropriate. As, parents we continually educate them as to what is and is not appropriate but it is next to impossible to do if they do not have the necessary medicine to clam them so that they can concentrate so they can be taught.
Just my 2 cents....well maybe 10 cents. thank you for letting me share. You may email me at any time if you need someone to listen.

Answer 4

1) First find out the cause of him talking in class. He could be very eager to contribute to idea in the class and his enthusiasm may have empowered him to do that without realising that he is disturbing the class.
2) Come to an agreement with him that if he wants to contribute to ideas in class, he should raise his hands so other classmates can pay attention to him.
3) if the situation improves, gives positive reinforcement to encourage positive behaviour.
4) Almost every class has one or a few kids who talk incessantly, you can also get the teacher to delegate some responsibilities to your child so that he will be kept occupied.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong in this and also not good. I have personal experiences in this. Especially I too have same behaviour. Then I started to Meditation and I got good result. I can assure you that Meditation will help him to keep silent for atleast 30 min, then he will start maintain silence automatically. Since it costs nothing send him a trainer for atleast 2 months and observe. I am sure diffently you will get the result

Answer 6

perhaps have him keep a journal where he puts down the things of interest to him instead of having him turn to classmate and disrupt the calssroom with his talking, that way he still gets the benefit of expressing himself, although in a quiet manner

Answer 7

hi sir
i am studying in st joseph school
n as far as i know people who speak in the class room
have great immage in the class n they r popular than the ones who
never open their mouth

Answer 8

Be friendly with him and advise him in a soft way, so that he should realise the mistake he is doing and how he is making his parents worry about it.

Answer 9

My first clue is,something is wrong with his parent who wrote this.

Answer 10

He NEEDS some GOOD Company. Please Do Not BOTHER him.