well, i have this friend that i have known for over half my life. we used to be great friends and we would hang out a lot and we'd get along with each other very well. but it seems to me that our friendship has been going downhill since the summer of '06 when we had this huge fight. i've talked to her about how i dont think we're going to recover from it but she claims that we will. we see each toher at parties a lot and we get a long at first but then i seem to get on her last nerve just as fast as she gets on mine. i'm really confused on what i should do. got any advice?
2006-10-08 04:07:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What it seems like is that neither of you have let go of that last fight. Since one or the other of you keep bringing it up, it cannot die and go away. The two of you will have to agree never to bring it up again, no matter what, and stick to it.
My friend and I (friend of 40 years) had a fight about 5 years ago, it took awhile, but our friendship is still strong and fine. You just can't keep harping on something that you want forgotten.
2006-10-08 04:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop reminding her that you don't think the relationship will recover. Spend some time out with her just the two of you. Go to lunch, shopping, movie, whatever. Parties are a TERRIBLE place to try to spend quality time with a friend. good luck
2006-10-08 11:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one is looking for forgiveness?
one is looking for answers?
She claims your friendship will recover and You don't think it is.
We all need time to find the answers for ourselves when no answer is given or we believe we were lied to. What ever the answer we choose, we choose a decision for us.
If you were honest, took responsibly for your part That's all you can do. if she did the same,that's all she can do.
A decision will be made for one self to fix what was broken.
One of you chooses not to except what happen and choose not to fix what got broken in your friendship. It isn't right for them.
Your friendship will not fully recover. What can you do? except it and hope time will heal the wounds.
2006-10-08 12:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her for a while, let her approach you. Sometimes, friendships need time to heal before they can be helped. Let things fix themselves.
2006-10-08 11:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut up....go eat hagoo...we had a huge fight?
2006-10-08 13:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by taurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray and i will pray for you much >3
2006-10-08 11:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Theater freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋