2006-10-08 03:59:35 · 13 answers · asked by kathyann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends on what the reason is that you dont want them to be with the boys that they are with?
2006-10-08 04:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend looks back and wishes that she had simply moved across the country when her teenage daughter got involved with an older man. The girl eventually had a kid by the guy and she and my friend are both tied to him for life now because of a need to associate calmly with the baby's daddy. If these guys are truly not good for your daughters, or your daughters are too young to be serious I would consider even something as earth shaking as moving, but a big word of caution: If you don't quickly get help for yourself and your daughters (counseling) they will only find more guys just like the ones they now have-- wherever you go.
2006-10-08 11:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by DidoDeeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are they? If they are under 18 then lay down the 'law'. (Be a parent not a friend) If they are over 18, then point out the obvious - show the boys' "talents" or lack there of and keep quiet pressure on those points...
2006-10-08 11:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by about2teach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you don't. Let them make their own mistakes and learn from them.
If you get involved and try to split them up they will NEVER forgive you and you will always be referred to as an evil ***** (Who knows, maybe you are - Most normal people don't ask this type of question).
You should think very carefully about trying to run someones life for them.
J
2006-10-08 11:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOT of planning reqd.
create suspicion.........
then strike when iron would be hot
but send me the story what happened
it would be good story to sell
LOL
parents(FATHER) feel envoy of boy friend of their daughter
2006-10-08 11:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using reverse psychology. Many times, if your kids think that you are extremely happy with their choices, their "rebellious" nature will cause them to reject these choices. You have to be smarter than they are.
2006-10-08 11:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Terry A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and hope they understand on their own the reasons for your concerns. You did not state what your concern was.
2006-10-08 11:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by fijisun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them wear patchouli oil, that'll do the trick!!!
2006-10-08 11:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by rasputin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant.
The more you tell them how bad the guys are, the more they will hang on to them.
2006-10-08 11:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send them to me
2006-10-08 11:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by amya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋