2006-10-08 03:48:47 · 17 answers · asked by kt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not sure its that you are falling in love.
i think its that you realize at that momenet how much you are going to miss the person. All these feelings come rushing at you all at once.
The feeling passes. and you are breaking up for a reason.
And that feeling of falling in love during a breakuip - is fear and thats why people get back together time after time when they really broke up for a reason.
If you are going through this..im sorry.
2006-10-08 03:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by njank99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a chance that everyone has to take... What if you are so scared to fall in love and then you miss the love of your life. Breaking up is heart break... and through heart break you find someone better and you learn from your mistakes and become more wise and that helps you with finding the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with.
2006-10-08 10:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't fall in love and break up. People fall in lust and break up , fall in infatuation and break up, fall in need of money (support) and break up. No one falls in love and breaks up. Love is an action not a place. Define Love and you'll understand that. Love is a word that is used too much to describe a multitude of things it is not. Love is Love. Nothing else fits it's description. Love is not easy. Lust is easy, infatuation is easy. Desire is easy.
2006-10-08 11:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its a love hate thing, some people are always falling out yet they know that they are really meant to be together...and if they are then they willl get back together. Love is a strange thing that can do funny things to all of us.
2006-10-08 10:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sazi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are always breaking up and getting back together have a need for drama in their lives.
2006-10-08 10:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is an unfortunate and unpredictable side-effect of falling in love.
2006-10-08 11:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can love another and still not be able to get along. Love does not always mean," and the lived happily ever after." Sometimes there is a razor's edge between love and hate.
2006-10-08 10:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love seems to be more of a game these days,a very hurtful game.Love is not what it seems to be any more for about 80 percent of the people anymore.In love one day and the next hating them,shouldn't be that away but,sorry to say, it is and no stopping to it.
2006-10-08 10:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who just break up are on the rebound they just want to go back to feeling loved and everything perfect, they usually find theirselves going out with the first guy or girl who comes their way and nine times out of ten it doesn't work out.
2006-10-08 10:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows???
My son and his partner of 9 years, broke up 4 months ago (No-one else was involved - his work was getting him down and she couldn't put up with his depression) Things had gone as far as getting a solicitor to deal with their house/furniture which they bought 2 years ago.
He had just started to pick himself up again, going out with his friends etc., when she decided it was the biggest mistake of her life and wanted them to get back together - they have now spent this weekend together.......
Once the 'cracks' appear in a relationship I think it's too late to make a go of it but who am I to tell them....only time will tell. Personally, I think he should move on.
2006-10-08 11:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋