would you choose your boyfreind other your mates?

Answer 1

I would try to incorporate some of my activities with my GF and my friends. For example I would tell my gf I was going to the Swap Meet with some friends...and then ask her if she would like to come with me. If it is something important to me then I would go regardless of what her answer was..If it was not that important to me, I would consider not going. Often, it depends on what she has offerred as an alternative. If she has nothing planned and simply wants to stay at home and watch TV, then I would still go with out her. As long as BOTH of you are attempting to include the other person in your activities then I think that's a good thing. If you find that there are places or things that either of you don't want the other one at then I see a potential problem. Relationships have to take the other person's wants and needs into consideration. Where you place their wants compared to your wants/needs is up to you and does have a direct influence on yours or hers happiness and satisfaction. Remember , who you are is what the other person found attractive in the first place. Who you hung out with, the things you did are the things that make "you"

Answer 2

I think that all in all you should pick your boyfriend. But it depends. My friends, especially the close ones run a close second, but ultimately I would pick him. It sort of depends what you are talking about though. It's sometimes hard to balance I understand, so try not to ask yourself this question too often. If you've ever had a friend ditch out all the time because of her boyfriend, even once they're not new anymore, you know how frustrating it can be, and a lot of friendships are lost that way. It also depends on how serious you are. Just do what your heart says. Hope that helps. Cheers!

Answer 3

I want to say no but think I would have to hesitate. I know my mates will always be there for me but being on your own is depressing. If they all loved me hopefully I wouldn't have to choose! It does kinda depend on the circumstances as well thoug!

Answer 4

Currently, yes. Because we are very close and have been together for a while. I believe we have a future.

Generally speaking, if it were some high school fling, or a guy I had been dating a few months...well, Hell No!

Of course, it all boils down to who is right in the situation, too...

Answer 5

It depends how serious the boyfriend is?could he be a life partner or just a bit of fun romance,coz boys come and go but true friends are there for life.

Answer 6

I did in the past and it was the biggest mistake I ever made, cos once I done that the guy turned out to be the biggest loser ever. Don't do it and if a guy ever asks you to chose then he's just not worth it.

Answer 7

no...i would divide my time between my boyfriend and my mates....if i ever split up, i would still always have my mates to comfort me....you can always replace a boyfriend....but i would never choose anyone over another, life's too short...keep what you have

Answer 8

If I was being forced by the boyfriend or the friends, I would chose the one not forcing me to pick.

Answer 9

me and my gf love each other a lot, but I dont want her to always choose me over her friends cause you need both and you gotta balance it out... they can help her with things I cant, and even sometimes you just wanna chill with your friends.

Answer 10

in simple terms supply him an afternoon to quiet down and then in simple terms call him and ask him to hold close out if he says no the in simple terms lease some dvds and carry close out at his place and talk this over and if that dosnt artwork in simple terms say shall we in simple terms initiate over and fake i in no way stated something .